I'm 27 and go to a school with people who are like 10 years younger. The bad part is that the girls are pretty but I can't do anything about it else I'll be labeled a pedo creep. The weird thing is that the girl are kinda into me too, but because of this societal rule, nothing happens. I also look younger than I am. How do I deal with this?
>labeled a pedo creepBy who?You know you can just keep these things to yourself. You don't have to announce HEY EVERYONE I'M DATING THIS SLUT AND SHE'S THE RIPE AGE OF 17!! AND I AM A GRAND TOTAL OF 10 YEARS OLDER THAN HER!!!! LOOK AT ME EVERYONE!! LOOK AT MY RELATIONSHIT EVERYONE!!!
You shouldn't get in any sort of romantical or sexual relationship with them ofc. Like you yourself said it's a 10years age gap AND they're in school buddy. Even if you look younger than your age, that's highly immoral. Come on, man, there's better people around your age. Maybe try to bag a teacher or smth. Teenagers are still kids and are interested briefly in lots of people and things. I hope you aren't a pedo.
>>34350239I'm glad i am studying CompSci and all my class mates are neck beards. no distractions like the OP.
>>34350239As long as your countries law permits it, there's nothing wrong with it. I do not like teen girls myself, I'm a MILF man by trade. I think dating a teen is a bad idea because teen girls are insufferable to be around. But I wouldn't call you a pedophile or something, that's batshit. If a mid - late 20's person dating a 16 - 18 year old is truly pedophilic then that means millions, possibly hundreds of millions of people's parents are pedos. The 10 year age gap is not uncommon. If we considered it a crime we'd have a lot of bastards on our hands due to filling the prisons with people's parents. The only reason why it's considered borderline pedophilic now is because the average maturity of adults has plummeted. Today your average 18 year old is as wise as a 12 year old. You CBA thank America for that.
Depends, if you have an excuse as in illness it's fair game.Don't listen to:>>34350254
>Held back ten yearsDamn! This nigga dumb!
>>34350289Maybe he had auto immune issues that went away? Things like that happen to people.
>>34350245Yeah I knowBUT sometimes the entire school feels like a huge hivemind. Like, gossip spreads like fire around here. The boys and girls in my class already called me a pedo a few times as a joke (the most I've done is talk to some chics).The age of consent here us 16 but the age gap makes it seem as if they want it to be 20 for me. The boys especially are insecure about it, they're cockblocking hard because they notice that girls like that power dynamic the age gap gives me. The girls here barely acknowledge the boys, it's soul crushing, but I also went through the same thing.However, most of the girls here are from the Balkans, which is utterly repulsive to me. They have this gross accent and I don't like their general attitude. You can call me a racist but not a pedophile at least.Most chics are fucking scared of me too, probably just teenage angst or whatever
>>34350254>there's better people around your ageLike, where? They're all already bagged or not attractive. No, I'm not into babies
First answer WHY you're in school at your age.
>>34350270Okay>>34350289I'm doing a basic office clerk education that's usually done by teens after they finish high school. I was a mechanic before but didn't want to be a golem goyslavecuck forever.
>>34350332See >>34350335I'm changing career paths.
>>34350335>didn't want to be golem goyslavecuck forever>changes to most golem goyslavecuckest field in the entire worldInteresting. Seems you do have similar maturity level, got my approval to pursue!
>>34350239When I was 42, I went back to college to finish a degree. I was going nights and my classmates were all 19-25.I'm nothing special, average at best but I carry myself well and have confidence and show it. The girls in my classes were inviting me out for drinks, asking if I wanted to go their apartments, smoke weed in their cars.If I didn't have a wife and kids waiting for me at home, I would have hit that shit but I didn't. Someone tell me why young women would act this way.
It's female nature to gauge and test every available mate, and older established prospects tend to have better resources. It's that simple.Problem is when combined with human impulse and lack of consequence, it gets messy, shallow, hedonistic, never fruitful in life partnership as the instinct intended.
>>34350344You obviously never worked a manual labor job before, have you? You have to constantly work uninterrupted, all of the time. During an office job, nobody cares if you hanh out a bit and talk to your coworkers for a bit too long. You're just sitting there all the time too. I said basic office work, nit investment banking working 80h per week.
>>34350348Yeah dude, one girl is also baiting me, singing my name and shit. Is this jailbate? She's almost 18 though.I think they just want to see how much power they have over you and also they just wanna have fun
>>34350354True. So what should I do? Say fuck it and right before graduation or even before then go hard on taking a girl and accepting that I'd look like a creeep to some? Or just look for girls outside of school? They can probably feel my insecurity about the age thing too though... FUCK
>>34350325So are they pretty or are they utterly repulsive? Or both? Also it just sounds like stirring petty drama for their little social hierarchies rather than having any actual interest in you, as a human
>>34350528A few are pretty, most are mid, and the rest are neither. Pretty much what you would expect in a school setting.Yeah I guess it's just for drama. I don't know
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don't do anything at school, you're just going to get in trouble. gossip will spread around school fast and rumours will circulate. you'll graduate soon assuming you're in your last year of high school. just wait until college, you'll probably find similar girls to date there, and you wont face judgement
>>34350239What societal rule? The one that you made up in your head?
>>34350239>I'll be labeled a pedo creepBy school do you mean college? If so, those girls are legally adults buddy. If you're in high school at 27, I have bigger questions.
Even 17 is legal in many states. If your butt hurt that younger girls like older men then that's a problem that you should take up with the law because it is legal. It has always been that way. 18-year-old girls with 30 plus year old men is very common. And they have the time of their lives while you sit there and cry about it
>>34350254you sound like a massive faggot
Have a good time with girls 18ish now that you are around 30. Easy to get with girls at that age. Only guys in early 20s will complain
>>34353032I'll graduate in 1,5 years, it's not a high school, it's a vocational school for basic office clerk jobs, so it's like 50/50 men and women. Or rather, boys and girls.Anyway, yeah rumors spread fast here. I guess I won't do anything then, they're fucking scared or at least wary of me anyway lmao. It's not like I fit in anyway since I'm neurodivergent. Guess I'll just find a girl from another country, she at least won't mind the autismo.>>34353436Maybe I'll try to bag one from the afterclasses or something low key like that lmao
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>>34350348>Someone tell me why young women would act this way.number of reasons. >married guys (were you wearing a ring) are safe playthings while girls are away from home.>some have the age difference kink>fuck their way into your company>you're a potential sugar daddy>some have such low esteem that anyone (you) who may say anything nice to them creates attraction (daddy issues?)
Op is just throwing a tantrum because he's getting broken up with by a girl who's going back to a guy who is older than him, more attractive, etc
Maybe you should just, get over yourself? Actually try interacting with these women? I'm 25 but am talking to a 19yo and it hasn't been that weird yet. Do we have a ton in common? Not really. Is there a noticeable generation gap between us? Yeah. But she's great to talk to, holds interesting convos, and we get along just fine
>>34366754>get over yourselfAnd by that you mean ignoring everyone? Makes sense
>>34367463Did you even read my post retard? OP cares way too much about what s0c1EtY might think about him dating someone significantly younger, when in reality 95% of people won't care and the other 5% are too onions to say anything to you. Either get over yourself or shoot older than you
>>34350348Biology
>>34366754>19yoI'm surrounded by 16 to 19yo
