i just turned 28, which means the death of my youth is looming over me, and i dont have a lot to show for it. i've been dating this girl for 5 years and she's very sweet and truly loves me, but i can't help but resent her for stealing my youth. never got to bang a femboy. never got to go to japan and try to pull a cute jap foid. every time i get an opportunity to travel with friends i have to make accommodations for her, or convince her to let me go by myself. i've only done the latter once and it was a big pain in the ass and she made me feel bad the whole time i was gone.i feel like i should break up with her but other times i feel like i could marry her. i dont want to waste any more of her time but i dont have the balls to break up with her, and even if i did, it's not like i'll be young enough for much longer that it'd be worth it. i guess my main issue is i should have met her when i was 35 and not 23.
>>34351000You're gay. Please kill yourself.
>>34351000You are already wasted your youth, if you break up you wasted it in vain, if you marry you spent those years building a foundation for family and it is not a 100% waste.
>>34351070Why do you people always make family the main goal? Children are not a commodity. Please stop with this.
If you break up with her you accomplish getting what's left og your freedom back and she will also be able to find someone she actually deserves, it's win-winMarrying her will lock you into lifelong resentment plus you don't get to live your dreams tm. Late 20s to early 30s is young enough and enough time to be a huge degenerate still
>>34351076I havent said anything about children, that is up to you. Family is just a reliable pillar of support and companionship. Loneliness hits real bad when you are old
>>34351000go to therapy.
>>34351106He can fill that loneliness with his own pursuits rather than people. He will be filled with regret if he stays with her.
>>34351000Another lame bragging thread huh? At least you have an actual question. Here's your answer: I'm a 29 year old boy about to turn 30. Shortly after I turned 28, I found out my gf of 5 years cheated on me, she moved in with the guy she cheated on me with. She actually moved COUNTRIES. She specifically went behind my back to look for someone else, so she can avoid being alone.I'm now alone for nearly 2 years. I cannot find a gf, I am so lonely that I've lost all pleasure in life. I am heavily debating suicide as I've come to realize women have instant access to love whenever they want it, while we men rot. We rot in a land of disinterest, we are LUCKY if we get a girl. LUCKY.You are LUCKY YOU UGLY FUCK. You're going to have a considerably worse life when you let her go. That being said, your situation is different, she will find a bf easy, I'm not worried about her. I'm talking about YOU. You think you're such hot shit that you'll just find another gf, news flash buddy, you're a guy. Opportunities for us come few times in a lifetime, fucking retard. Let her go, for her sake. Just be prepared for the shit show that's coming as you slowly realize no one wants you and you become more and more desperate and more and more lonely as you lower your standards then further lower your standards until you're begging to have someone like your ex and you think why oh why did I do it and I would fucking give anything in the world to have a girl like her she wasn't lame I take it all back life is not about that!!!You will find OUT dude, you're in for A FINDING OUT SESH, GO FUCKING GET IT CHAMP!!! GO GET IT!!!
>>34351193And this is exactly why I hate this board.
You’re the male version of bitches who think they missed out from not riding the cock carousel, you shallow as hell
>>34351200For giving you an honest answer? Other people told you to kill yourself, at least from me you're getting an informed view from someone who's going through it. I know what it's like to sink into complacency, thinking that life will always be the same way it has been. You've forgotten my guy, what it's like to not have her. Remind yourself of what a shitty life you're going to have alone if you must, I told you what's on the other fucking side
>>34351000The youth ends in 35 , don't be a doomer faggot
>>34351208I’m not OP, and I honestly don’t crave human connection. If anything, I’m working towards my building my own success—one that does not rely on the existence of another. You either get dominated or live like a loser. Stop treating other women like trophies. Go do something to get your mind off the loneliness.
>>34351000If you think these things you are beyond hope. The reality is these things may feel like something you want to do in the moment, they don't really matter. Not as much as building lasting relationships
>>34351238Not everybody is a chad like you bro, I've been distracting myself from loneliness for 29 years, success doesn't matter for me at this point, I'm completely alone in this world living alone and have no one around me who cares. After so long, I need a girlfriend to function. Words won't help it. It's either finding one or killing myself soon, probably the latter desu. Keep dominating king
i hate the antichrist
You're a gay faggot who should ACK.
are you joking? at 35 she would be married/with kids. take it from a single 36 year old, it's absolutely over in your mid 30s, if you're not married by then you will never be and will have to make do with prostitutes because the dating poll at this age is completely nonexistent unless you want clingy fat single mothers with little jamals and dantes.
>>34351000Fuck you OP, I'm the complete reverse of you - I'm 27, live in Japan, have plenty of experiences but never once had anything resembling a relationship or had sex without paying for it. Most of our generation would kill just to have at least one substantial relationship before they hit 30.
>>34355715How are biological children any better from step-children?
>>34351193Same deal with me actually. 6 years with a girl, she left me for another man. Two years later they are still together and im alone. Hard not to resent women for how easily they can just slide into a whole 'nother life and forget about you.
>>34359589I'm so sorry man, yeah it's so hard. I wish I could do something about it but the world is so unfair, girls are girls and we are men and men are worthless and disposable when it comes to love apparently. It's so fucking terrible. I've actually considered going on Grindr and finding either a trans or a feminine boy to be with because I'm just that lonely, and between suicide and being gay I'd like to try that before I kill myself
>>34351120afford therapy
>>34351000> should have met her when i was 35 and not 23.So you miss out on her prime and youth? Why would you want this? What is wrong with American men in 2026
>>34351000>never got to bang a femboyYour problem is probably not wasted youth but the fact that you are a closeted homofag.
>>34351000Marry her and pump her full of children. Stop being a faggot and a wannabe race mixer.
>>34351000Brother you need to embrace the unique experience that is your life. You are not missing out on a full life experience by not doing those things. Most of the people I talk to who have done those things kind of felt like they wasted time doing so ya know. Like it sounds like your gf's love means a lot to you so why blow that up for something that's likely mid sensory experience.
>>34351000Grass is always greener friend. I didn’t start dating until my mid 20s and also felt like I ‘missed out’ on a wild sex crazed youth. I’m 29 now and all I have to show for it are a shit ton of dates that never went anywhere, a fair bit of hookups, vast majority of which wound up in the shittiest sex imaginable, and even flew to Europe to try prostitution. The degen lifestyle doesn’t pay. And I’m not saying that as a moralfag who’s telling you to find Christ or any shit like that. I’m telling you as a fellow hedonist, that cooming fucking sucks without intimacy.I’d kill to be in your position to have a gf of five years (minus the fucking trannies part). Take my opinion for what it’s worth, as an anon on an anime image board, but I don’t think humans are wired to stay monogamous without children involved. The ‘missed out’ feeling will probably go away once you have kids. Just dump some babies into her and love her. Being single at this age fucking sucks.
>>34351193If we're going to play that game, then at least you've had a girlfriend before. I've never even kissed a girl before. I'm not particularly shy either, but even the thought of being with me has had girls react in disgust. At least if you have had a girlfriend, that is statistical proof you could find another. You are at least good enough for that.
>>34360260Tried Facebook dating. issue is that it sucks at separating between "friends" and "date", so you had a bunch of retarded faggots who could swipe to match with you, but as I mention, it shows up as "friend". Turns out if I was gay, I might not be an incel. Part of me genuinely thinks about it. It would be absolutely deplorable, but a man is still a person I suppose? I never actually would of course.
>>34370633how does facebook dating compare to the big 3, tinder, hinge, bumble? I really want to get married but these are such fucking crapshoots.And I don't think you can force yourself to be gay btw. You'd probably just be disgusted by it if you tried it.
