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So how do you deal with people that pretty much hate you and bad mouth you to others and take every opportunity to ridicule everything you do?
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>>34353116
by being a succesful chad
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>>34353116
Understand they are justified in hating you and wanting nothing to do with you Colton
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Why do you care what people think of you? Are you that desperate for their love and approval that you lost all your self worth? Fuck em and focus on you. Work, save money, grow your education, and live for what you enjoy, not how others see you.
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>>34353524
No Colton is just an narc attempting to project on others
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>>34353116
Nothing. Ignore them. They're either miserable with their own lives and enjoy making others be as miserable as they are.
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>>34353116
I don't acknowledge them or talk to them. I treat them as if they are worthless to me, and if I do notice them I smile and nod. Just because they like to act like a piece of shit doesn't mean I need to do the same.
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>>34353116
Start sperging at them. Lash out.
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>>34353601
This is based
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>>34353649
Good advice to do to OP
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>>34353116
>that pretty much hate you
pretty much?
do they hate you or not, you insufferable faggot?
speak CLEARLY
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>>34353116
Have you considered listening to them? For all I know, there's reason to hate you.
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>>34353608
Yeah! That'll show em! That'll put em in their place!
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>>34353116
prepare. wait your turn. then strike. show no mercy.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-k9sTAYEQ
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>>34353259
>>34353981
OP here. I dunno who the fuck this Colton nigger is but that ain't me.
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>>34353116
I'm going through the same situation at my job. There's a fagot who hates me and keeps talking badly about me, I think the only thing I can do is ignore him.
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>>34356442
Yes and no, if the person is loud enough and manipulates others to believe what he says is true even though he is just lying for his own gain then you have to speak up and say something basically every time even if it's fucking annoying for you and anyone else, just understand that you're dealing with poison and that's the real enemy.
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>>34356587
Yeah, you need to remind people and discredit what the faggot says. If puerile don't already hate the guy, then repetitive complaining and put downs can alter other people's reception.
Depends on the group. With retards I can just say threother guy is a retard and just say everything that is wrong with him back and that he is wrong about everything.
With rhe more educated, you just need to remind them subtly that the other guy just lashes out and to reaffirm your own positives.
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>>34356628
Unfortunately that is how I have to deal with him every day until this is over and I'm home
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>>34357473
I see
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>>34356628
This is emotional blackmail
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>>34356628
This is how emotional blackmail works.

>>34359731
What I meant by deal with it is I have to be here to negate his attempts at doing this to emotionally blackmail her
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>>34359787
oh okay



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