I have been dating my first girlfriend for 6 years and I dont want to marry her for the below reasons> She is a dumb fucking retarded bitch without two braincells. She lives with her two sisters, one of which has married some guy who works at FAANG, so she lives with them, and constantly has fights with the husband who pays for everything.Has no job, no life prospects. I'm going to medical school next year out of state.> She is dumb because she abuses her free living situation and fills her room to the top with plushies. I am not joking when I say that there is no room to walk around and that it is piled to the top with these fucking things. I warned her how bad of a fire hazard it is but she wont listen to me. The only reason i stay with her is because shes really fucking hot and I think im just attached to her now.Am I retarded? I drive 2 hours each way to see this woman every week by the way.How do I convince myself to stop talking to her forever? I think I need medicine or something. Please advise.
Oh also I have been raw dogging her for 3 years straight and she hasn't gotten pregnant. either i am infertile or shes infertile, or pull out method works really well. She's not on birth control because that makes her even more crazy.I think I might shoot myself if she gets pregnant.I really need advice here guys, I can't stop fucking her. I've tried SSRI's (lexapro, etc) to make me not want to fuck her and it didnt work either. Please advise.
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>>34357067Sounds like you care more about the things she has than her. So yeah move on and be with someone you actually care about who they are
>>34357067plap it till it keeps your elliot rodger spawn.
I was in the same situation. Mine was filipina, and I was with her for 6 years. I didn't leave because she was my bang maid, but also she was completely financially dependent on me, so without me she's homeless. My life is so much better without her in my life though. I miss getting handjobs while playing switch, but the peace I have now really is worth it. Nothing to do, but jack off and find someone you would rather be with.
>>34357067Going to med schools seems like the perfect reason to break it off>The only reason i stay with her is because shes really fucking hot and I think im just attached to her now.No excuse. She wouldn't feel the same way if she found a guy she liked more than you tomorrow. Really it just sounds like you're afraid you can't do better, which is always why the options you need to weigh are stay or be alone. But consider it's better to be alone than in bad company.Also consider, however minute the possibility, that she and the FAANG brother in law might have ragefucked at one point. Doesn't matter what you think about her character or what she says, if she's living with a male that's providing for her situation, there is always a chance. Heard too many horror stories of live-in girlfriends fucking dads and stepdads and uncles and sister's boyfriends.
>>34357825>>34357617I get what youre saying, if I truly loved her I would not care that she's broke and has no life prospects, etc. Honest question because I have not dated too many people.Do most women just beg you to buy them stuff and act super childish? She loves calling me daddy and begging me to buy her literal childrens toys. And begs me to "rape" her and act like her dad. >>34357666HotThank you >>34357825>But consider it's better to be alone than in bad company.Can you explain this to me ? I start to get really anxious and sweaty whenever I feel like im going to be alone. I think that I might need to be medicated to stop feeling that way because honestly it's a stupid feeling and I wish it didn't exist.>however minute the possibility, that she and the FAANG brother in law might have ragefucked at one point.lol she crushes on everyone that is slightly nice to her like a middle schooler and then gets mad at the smallest things the next day like some autistic OCD retard
>>34357078>I think I might shoot myself if she gets pregnant.Good reason to break it off right now.You'll be in med school, you'll be fine. And worst case, there are always nurses.
>>34358209>Can you explain this to me ? Im 666. My ex and I had very different personalities and principles. She was Filipina from the Philippines, the cultural divide introduced me to her delicious food. Anyway, I consider myself intelligent and a candid person, if I find right person we can talk for hours. I would talk to her and she would just agree, there was a language barrier, but she was also dumb. She could not, did not, understand me. I would try to give her advice, and she would ignore it. I would repeat myself constantly, but it would just slip off her mind. Honestly thought she had some kinda of young dementia, but maybe she was never listening in the first place. If I wanted to exercise, she would say I'm trying to be attractive for other women. She would get jealous if I took showers. She would ask about my exes and got jealous af. I never been in an hostile relationship and I had to man up to take charge of my life. I started yelling, bossing her around. And that sucked, I want to be kind and loving to my woman, and happy to be with them. With her I felt like I had to hold the whip, and it made me miserable. She had lots of ambitious plans that amounted to nothing because she was used to being coddled. I tried to be encouraging and supportive and nothing would come of them. I feel like breaking up is what's best her too, to push her from the nest. She would cheat on her assignments and was proud of the fact that she was cheating her education. I found it abhorant. Instead of a partner I had a vapid burden I could barely tolerate. And that was just the first year. I did leave, went back for a booty call and she said I can have anything, whenever and she kept to her word on that. So it became a relationship of convenience, I was the bread winner, and she would stfu when I told her too. We already constantly had sex, so it's not like she could give me anything more. Find a friend first op.
>>34357067So you're dating a girl for whom you have no respect or affection. Doesn't that make YOU the one with a braincell deficiency?
>>34358463>what a terrible relationship, we had sex all the time, and she shut up when I told her toI get that it was terrible, but you gotta admit that for many that would be a better deal than being alone.For a while, at least. Until they understand what they're giving up.
>>34358498Yes, that's how I rationalized it, but better than most was not good enough for me. Everyday I knew this wasn't working out. Everyday it ate at me. My post makes it sound like me-good, her-bad, but seeing her try so hard to please me also made me feel terrible because I just did not give a shit, I had no respect for her. If you have ever seen a picture where the girl was happy but the guy was miserable, that was me. Here's was my actual problem; I felt my life ending, everyday and every night, that dead end job feeling, I have felt in the past, became a dead end relationship feeling.
>>34358209>Can you explain this to me ? I start to get really anxious and sweaty whenever I feel like im going to be alone. I think that I might need to be medicated to stop feeling that way because honestly it's a stupid feeling and I wish it didn't exist.Nah dude you just have to learn to deal with being alone. As you keep getting older you'll realize that a lot of being a man is being alone and in pain most of the time. I wouldn't recommend medication or even therapy unless you feel this way because you were abused and abandoned as a kid or something. If you're considering med school, you're in your mid 20s, right? Not trying to shit on you but so many zoomers these days aren't well adjusted to reality. You need to learn how to be alone and operate as a man on your own terms and principles. Think of it as exposure therapy. This chick seems like she's just dragging you down. You're young, you have time to start over. I think you need some time by yourself, as a single adult, to adjust to reality. A woman should not detract from your life, she should add to the goodness that you've already built yourself.
>>34357078If u drink a lot of alcohol free beer ur dick dont work
>>34361827This. I am a female and I went though this childish phase. It could get better but it sounds like you should try to find something better
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>>34357067>The only reason i stay with her is because shes really fucking hot and I think im just attached to her now.Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
I dated a Korean girl. She was ok smart... well, actually she didn't know how to use a can opener, and her mom was a wealthy prof so she was coddled.Didn't get to know her much, but took her virginity.Broke things off because I felt like a checkbox for her. She didn't seem to live in reality, I think she didn't know why we were dating beyond boy + girl = get married some day.Also to you other dudes, don't date Indians or Pinays. They are dumb as shit. You can identify a Pinay that really looks Chinese or some other type of asian just by their goofy poor manners. It's embarrassing. Don't go there.Also, op, give her some good poundings then go to school with good memories.
>>34358823>Here's was my actual problem; I felt my life ending, everyday and every night, that dead end job feeling, I have felt in the past, became a dead end relationship feeling.This is horrible to feel. Clipped wings, bird in a cage with some bugs.Honestly that's how 95%+ of Pinay women behave though. Acting proud to be cheating in university is the PERFECT example of how they think and behave.>unaware of others perceiving them>if confronted, claim they don't care about others opinions>get angry and frustrated from their poor behavior being questioned>do even more stupid shit to compensate>refuse to learn their lesson and repeat it all againit's disgustingHope you're doing better now dude. Found peace, or a new girl?>>34357666>Nothing to do, but jack off and find someone you would rather be with.exactly where I am at. Sucks to be alone in my late 20s, but Ive fucked enough women to avoid developing a complex
>>34366815My personal life had its turmoil, but I'm great, in other aspects. Good job. I'm financially responsible, so I have the confidence of savings. I'm living on my own for the first time, it's so peaceful. I don't care to get a gf now, I'm more interested in going to a baseball game and not having someone complain about leaving in the 3rd.
>>34366790Omg the lack of manners. Faux pas central everytime I took her out in public. Is that true about Indian chicks too? I always like dark skinned girls, I never had Indian but I was obsessed with them in college.
>>34370157probably true, but indian doctors, engineers, and scientists I met are high functioning. Haven't met any pinays like that for some reasonid love to hear more stories from you
as a counterpoint OP, just consider there are people on here that fantasise everyday about pumping their korean ex full of cum but can't
