/adv/ - give me good reasons to not care about what people think about me and just live - Advice

Anonymous

give me good reasons to not ca(...) 03/21/26(Sat)15:55:22 No.34359435

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give me good reasons to not care about what people think about me and just live Anonymous 03/21/26(Sat)15:55:22 No.34359435 Archived

i have friends irl and i have some hobbies i enjoy, but im very terrified of what people think about me. i also want to be more confident and i think thatll come naturally once i stop caring what others have to say about me. idk i want to live a good life as myself without pretending to be something im not

Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
03/21/26(Sat)16:34:18 No.34359520

Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE 03/21/26(Sat)16:34:18 No.34359520

>>34359435
I'm confident and I'm having a good life. Part of that good life is standing up for her and this is how I do it. This is just the in-between and once she is home I don't have to do this anymore here

Anonymous
03/23/26(Mon)04:43:43 No.34364076

Anonymous 03/23/26(Mon)04:43:43 No.34364076

>>34359435
Do no wrong and anyone would be wrong to think less of you.

Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
03/23/26(Mon)05:10:19 No.34364120

Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE 03/23/26(Mon)05:10:19 No.34364120

I know true love because I Have had it with my soulmate and will again.

Anonymous
03/23/26(Mon)06:44:13 No.34364291

Anonymous 03/23/26(Mon)06:44:13 No.34364291

>>34359435
If you have social anxiety you are thinking about yourself too much, usually no one else is thinking that much about you or even themselves. There are bigger puzzles to solve in life than how others perceive you.

Anonymous
03/23/26(Mon)15:45:26 No.34365512

Anonymous 03/23/26(Mon)15:45:26 No.34365512

>terrified of what people think about me
>reasons to not care

1. solipsism
only you are real, other "people" are not real. dont care about what others think, because they dont real, eZ
2. everyone has to die alone and for themselves (probably) so dont care about them at all, can they help you to not die at all? no? then fuck em.
3. you are you and only you can be you. you have to live life for you and yourself only. you have free will and you can do whatever you want. life is too short to care what others think and make changes to yourself. you have to stand trial infront God, not others
4. the demiurge wants you to waste your time and energy on what others think instead of searching exits from this discount reality simulation
5. thinking and ideas are not real. technically, they are immaterial, some retard atheist argue that therefore, it is not real.
6. only weak faggots care what others think. you are a strong independent soulful and spirited being (hopefully...) and therefore your will is absolute. you come first (of course all in according to cosmic laws, actio reactio, ect) others dont come at all because they are just figments of your imagination
7. cia psyops of the 70s/80s want to make you believe that "your" "thoughts" "are" not "you". others say that "your" ego is not "you"....
there are more but this is not helpful prolly, for you.

confidence comes from competence(s), faith and belief in yourself. why do you doubt yourself OP?
maybe you just need a strong partner that lifts you up, that can be the solid rock for you? whom you can trust? maybe your family?

Anonymous
03/23/26(Mon)16:20:29 No.34365623

Anonymous 03/23/26(Mon)16:20:29 No.34365623

You posted a pic of leopards, but only a lion concerns himself with the opinions of a sheep. Go be a lion.

Anonymous
03/23/26(Mon)16:32:31 No.34365674

Anonymous 03/23/26(Mon)16:32:31 No.34365674

>>34359435
Unfortunately I can't just do that. I have to stand up for her otherwise giving Colton free rein to manipulate her using these LARPs. That's what hurt us in the first place. So no, I won't just let it be. I will always be here in every way for her until she is home with me