How do I connect to people when I'm an intersex freak of nature
I don't know. Hope this helps.
>>34363509It did not really help
>>34363502what kind of intersex op?
>>34363692Chimerism. My mom expected twins and only I came out. I absorbed my female twin
>>34363709Are you a functional male? I say just be yourself. Worst case you're infertile.
>>34363730Most of my body is xy chromosome but parts of me are xx. dick and balls outside. Inside I have uterus and one ovary, but no vagina. I have fucked hormones and weird body proportions and have tits. I wear a binder for my boobs and big jacket so I look like a guy in public but the problem is I dont feel like a guy, I feel like I'm constantly lying to everyone about who I am. I feel like I dont belong anywhere and I'm too different from other people to belong with them. I have almost no friends. I want to know how to feel like I belong.
>>34363742I think you're cool, boob male.
>>34363742Have you considered trooning out? Like it sounds like you have a good baseline and you say you don't feel like a guy.
>>34363788Thanks, although I dont feel cool>>34363807Sometimes but im not sure if that's for me. My height and broad shoulders won't pass as woman. But I have wide hips and tits so maybe I could try to amazonmode or something. But personality and mannerisms are not feminine, it would be fake
>>34363742Maybe be more open about it early on if you think you are getting close to someone but just be like "I just feel like you should know". Maybe get the ovary removed if you identify more as masculine but it is what it is. I think a lot of people won't make it a deciding factor for their relationship with you.
>>34363847I dont want to get the ovary removed or anything, maybe this sounds schizo but that's from my twin sister and it feels like she's a part of me and I dont want to get rid of that. Maybe it would be better to tell people up front but I dont want to be offputting
>>34363856You know it's really not that big a deal ultimately. Just try to have virtue and be enjoyable to be around. It's all any of us can do. You're not lying just because you don't bring up every little detail. Also lots of people won't care.
>>34363742Are you cute?
>>34363502i'm a schozo freak of nature that can't connect to people, you must either play the numbers game and find the few ppl worthwhile to know or accept being a lonely alien amongst mankind
>>34365086ahem *schizo
>>34363502Don't TRY to connect or belong with normies, they're so unloving they'll always reject you in their hardened hearts for seeming different or deficient in any way.Instead...you should find just one person to connect to, someone that loves you unconditionally for who you are, even as friends. Otherwise be thankful, because unlike average men and women--being each other's incomplete complements--you're a complete human being.
>>34363742> I feel like I'm constantly lying to everyone about who I amWhenever you feel like you're living a lie ask yourself what the lie is. Is it that you're not truly a man? Is it that you secretly have titties? What is the lie you're telling them?
>>34363502Do you manage to make connection when its with people you talk online? Could be easier because they would have no idea what your body look like and maybe more likely to not care if you ever meet up IRLAlso did you try speaking with other intersex people? This way you could talk about more intimate stuff without the fear of being fetishized>>34363709Similar stuff happened to my mom she won't stop talking about it, wasn't told if my twin was supposed to be male or female thoughBorn with what's expected from a male body, the karyotype confirmed XY too but idk if they checked multiple places, no idea if I could have extra internal organsThe only female features I know of are secondary like high prolactin, round face, soft skin, wide hips, barely visible adam's apple and so onEnded up transitioning a few years ago because I felt so alien compared to other males especially my elder brother, only surgery I did was orchidectomy and it feels so much better now to be in a body I'm more comfortable with
>>34371035Fuckin freak tranny neck yourself
>>34371037I wasn't even a fully biological male to begin with but sure
>>34371037anon you have such an interesting opinion about this "my body, my choice" matter, would you mind sharing it with your friends and family?
>>34363502you're in the right place. >>/lgbt/curb that enthusiasm, dearie.