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I work in a small office, just 4 people most of the time, but sometimes it's just me and another co-worker. I've noticed that this co-worker has the strange behavior of speaking out load whenever we are the only ones in the office, if there is just one more person, she does not do it. Sometimes she says what's she's writting out loud or whimpers about something like being cold, sleepy or about having a sort of pain. Why is this? Am i supposed to say something back? her comments aren't aimed directly at me but why say them out loud in the first place? I almost never answer back but it puzzles me why this person does that.
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>>34364908
She's just thinking out loud
I also do that when I'm alone.
Don't say nothing, it's just her saying random stuff
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>>34364908
She's probably on high alert when there are four people around. But when there are only two people, she feels less pressured, as if no one were there.
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>>34365010
in instropection, that makes sense, i try to be as silent as possible when i work. As the anon over here said>>34365010 , would you also say it's better to not say a thing when she starts rambling to herself?
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When she wants to reach out to me, she will reach out to me I will be there for her,
Sign3dMike
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>>34364908
I make comments like this at work. In my case it is because I am getting stoned on weed edibles, but I assume many normies are on this frequency normally. It's usually more comments like "I'm tired" and "I wanna go home"
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>>34364953
>I also do that when I'm alone.
>Implying OP doesn't have enough aura to make a woman feel his presence
brutal.
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>>34364908
Like a lot of people above me said, I think she's just thinking out loud, she's comfortable enough to do that around you looks like, people tend not to do that in group settings. Maybe try doing the same thing back to gauge her reaction, otherwise your current approach of low interaction seems fine.
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>>34365792
i don't want my presence to be felt, i don't have a romantic interest on that person



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