I am trying to become social so I can work my way up to getting a big boob girlfriend. I tried vrchat since it seems like there is nowhere to go to be social as an adult. Other than that my other big problem is I just can't seem to talk to anyone; I have nothing to talk about. No one wants to talk about gaming or anime. Even if they claim to be a gamer they just play shitty gatcha games. Only reason I'm giving this place a try is because a friend from vrchat suggested this place.
>>34364973Being social on the internet doesn't count. The only exception is if you built a large Instagram or Youtube.
>>34364973You can't "become" social. You either are or you're not. If you're a depressed loser, there's absolutely no way you'll become social. It's not something you can force, sadly.
I've tried being in social irl but I am always quiet because I have nothing to say. When I was in college I would hang out at the student lounge and no one would talk to me, I was invisible and now that I am out of college I feel like I have lost my chance to make more friends and be social.
I guess I'll just never be able to get a big boob girl friend.
>>34364973I've always been naturally social and it is easy to talk to others. I'm not sure where your hiccup is but maybe you just don't try?
My difficulty is I am always silent and have nothing to say to play and I wait for people to talk to me ( primarily because I have nothing to say ). When people do talk to me it's just boring things that aren't video games or anime related.
Oops ignore play I had a brain fart and accidentally added that there and forgot to edit that out.
>>34364973Put yourself in situations where you are DOING something in the company of others doing it. You automatically have something in common (what you're doing), something to chat about (what you're doing) and something to cover any natural gaps in the conversation (the doing).Join s club, a gym, a team, a church. Do volunteer work. Take a random evening class. Meet your coworkers. Meet your neighbors. Go to concerts, conventions, sports events, etc.
>>34364974this and thread
