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what it is like having a female friend? I never had a female friend
If you have example, please share them, thank you
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>>34365106
It sucks cause you'll catch feelings eventually.
Though since you're on it must be nice cause OP is ALWAYS GAY.!!!!! :P
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hmm. well, she's very nice. i could be super sad and she'll see me across the library and make a beeline for me and motion for me to take my earbud out so she can go HEYYYHOWVEYOUBEEN?!

usually then she will try to find something to give me a compliment about, if it's my hat or I'm wearing a new necklace or something she will notice it and say it's cool. then she will go into talking about something and I'll say yea... cool... that sounds cool... oh really you did that... and then she guess WELLITWASNICETALKINGTOYOU GOTTAGETTOVOLLEYBALLPRACTICE and walks away and then the darkness returns and the bell jar descends again and i swear, next time i will ask her to do something off of campus, like I've always wanted to do, next time for sure
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>>34365106
>what it is like having a female friend?
Exactly the same as having a male friend, except she's female.
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>>34365106
Only when she is my gf. I don't do just friends.
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>>34365106
Good, but obviously you want to fuck them, so not as good as you want it to be.
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I had a female friend freshman year of college, we hung out so much everyone on our floor thought we were dating kek. She was great to talk to, lot of interesting insight that my 18yo brain would have never got from a guy. We did a lot of fun stupid shit together like jump in the campus fountain and smoke weed in abandoned warehouses around the city. We even lived together for a year. Still were good friends after everyone moved out [whole other story] but around 2023 she completely ghosted me after moving back to SF. Was a little torn about it but our friendship had naturally faded for a few years atp, so I just remember the good times we had. Can't say I don't miss hanging out with her though
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It's like having a satori maiden third eye full read people's minds n shi
Jk it's not
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>>34365106
If it is truly platonic, then it's just like a guy friend. Except when everyone is drunk and it's time to talk about sex, they go autistically in depth. Like my friend told me EVERYTHING about her ex boyfriends, penis size, aptitude in bed, if they can't get hard, every fucking details. It was fucking hilarious to see those guys again after those stories.
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>>34368143
Yeah a female friend will confide in you like you are "one of the gorls" if you're not used to all the sex talk it can be jarring for sure
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>>34368186
Also this is the female friend in question for all the curious people/gooners
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>>34368143
>It was fucking hilarious to see those guys again after those stories
why
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>>34368399
One of her ex couldn't get hard ever. He was the typical tough guy and kind of a douche. It was really funny hearing all the stories about him not getting hard and always finding stupid stories to justify it.
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>>34368419
I guess, but then you have to consider that anyone you've ever fucked tells the same stories about you.
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>>34368419
was he a bully?
>>34368444
good comeback
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>>34365132
Off topic, but are you the guy in the photo here and are your initials D.G.?
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>>34370346
Bc if yes, u and I used to be friends lol our parents know each other and we've known each other since we were kids but haven't spoken to each other in probably 15 years lmao
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necrobump for necro-friendship
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>>34368243
You should kill yourself for posting her image her. So much for being a friend
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>>34370437

Also just to prove I'm not bullshitting you, in case you really are who I think you are, you had animal crossing, spyro, and spongebob battle for bikini bottom, Zoombinies and also collected Garbage Pail Kids cards, and tried to teach me how to play mortal kombat once but I was total ass at the game and also your parents have a recording of me singing the 'Jay-Jay the Jetplane' opening
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>>34370648
Lmao okay incel faggot. Go back to jerking off to my friend and quit pretending you care about her
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>>34368444
All the women talk in frightening details about sex to their friends. If you ever had sex with a girl, she told her closest friends about it. They know how your dick look.
>>34368751
Yes, he was an asshole.
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>>34370815
My ex and her friends would openly discuss all of our dick sizes. She told me they compare everything, how long we last, who actually made them cum, it was kind of a lot unti l realized I don't care deep down
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>>34370820
do they laugh at little dicks? are they in a awe when they see a big one?
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>>34365106
well its nice having friends whatever the gender and my closest are mostly female
All my male friends are from middleschool I haven't managed to form any similar bond with guys since, somehow it has been easier developing a friendship with women in my adult life
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can you touch women friends casually or not?
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>>34371901
Depends. ask first.
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>>34365106
If it's a female friend who you actually text and do things with one on one, it's kind of fun because it's like having a GF who you're totally comfortable with and don't have any kind of pressure to impress or entertain.
The problem is the situation is fake. One person likes the other, or both, but not enough to actually date. Also, everyone around you will assume you're fucking. This means creating problems with your relationship if you have one, or with whoever it is you do want to be dating.
You kind of have to make the best of it knowing it's temporary until one of you starts dating or you just date each other. If attractive, later is recommended because being best friends with your spouse vs. a spouse you're always working hard to impress/seduce is night and day.
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>>34365127
The trick is to have female friends who are unattractive or have something about them that turns you off sexually but not friendually. Then it's really chill and you get to talk with them about different shit than male friends and it's fun. Get their takes on pulpy novels and chick flicks, kinda fun to hear passionate takes about shit you have no investment in



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