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This chick (both of us are 23) I am in the same friend group with just hit me up out of the blue a few days ago and we have been chatting. Similar interest (Vidya, anime, music) and she is pretty attractive and very much my type.

Only one slight issue is she relatively recently split (6 months) with her fiance (4 years). And might of been talking with my friend as of a few days ago.
I don't get texted out of the blue so its really odd and my assumption is she is into me and something happened with my buddy. Im all for seeing where it goes but I am not really interested in being a rebound or second pick. What is the move with this?
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>>34365689
See how far you can take it if you don't have any better options. Things working in the long term are not 100% guaranteed ever anyway. Focus on your decisions in the near future first.
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>>34365689
I would need to know that he is completely cut out. There's other things but everything in due time
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>>34365767
If you mean the fiance he called it and said to never contact him again. Ill prob get the news on whatever my friend did to fumble it tomorrow prob.
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>>34365689
>23
HOW ARE YOU SO MUCH OF A PUSSY?
>>34365689
>Vidya, anime
OH....nevermind
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>>34365689
>What is the move with this?
everything you've written here indicates you don't want anything....yet you're asking for advice on what to do
do nothing, then shithead
do you WANT to pursue this woman? then be direct and tell her you two are going out.
if you don't WANT to pursue her, then stfu
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>23
>in your friend group
>just got out of a 4y relationship
>also messaging your other friend
that could quickly turn into a clusterfuck
take it at your own pace (slow)
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>>34365689
have you tried brutally killing yourself? sounds like a winning move for everyone involved
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>>34367825
>>34367825

only after taking out the trash

otherwise, I got her
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>>34367843
>narc starts raging about taking out other people because everyone is trash but him
coolio but have you tried killing yourself? it seems like it will fix everyone's problems
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>>34367855
not raging in the slightest. What I state is a fact. it simply is this way if crossed.
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>>34365689
Suggestion: stop thinking of her as a chick.



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