We were all emotionally retarded young adults, as long as you learn why what you did was fucked up and never do it again I would say you're good. A few more of these though and you probably got something vile inside. I guess only time will tell.

>>34367223

you absolutely are the problem, ur a fucking assohle kys

>>34367357
Agreed. Sounds like every girl has developed problems because she has been around this guy.

Hopefully he doesn't interact with anyone else

>>34367455
not true.

I am 30 now. Alot of these were in my youth.

LAtely it has been the opposite: I have been very good to certain women but they've been horrible to me.

IDK if this is karma but it feels like it

>>34367474
I just can't rightfully say in any capacity that anyone should be with you based on what you've said and that is just in a short bit here.

>>34367492
and who are *you* to say who anyone should be with?

get off the high horse. Let people choose.

>>34367508
Based on what you described you are, no one should be with you

>>34367508
>Let people choose
Oh you are funny. With what you did to manipulate that choice

>>34367223
>I think I might be the problem.
You are.

>How do you know?
Because there is literally nothing a woman can do which causes abusive behaviour in a non-abusive man. Of course it's you.

>>34367608
He described who he was 9 years ago. Think about who you were 9 years ago. Not the same person, right? Very possible he changed. He wants to work on it at least.

This is a bait post. No way a guy like this could accomplish such a feat. Women can not be manipulated to give up on their dreams by a man. They have too much emotional maturity to not let that happen.

>>34367223
Yeah, threatening to upload private stuff someone sent you is horrendous behavior. Glad you realized you were abusive. Now you know, just don't do it. Think about why you did it. Also think about how you wouldn't like to be threatened. You may be a sociopath if you don't understand that basic empathy exercise. If I was a woman, and I wanted a dick pic but with your face in it and then I threatened to post you online or show your friends and family something embarrassing about you that you showed me in private confidence, you'd not like that. That's how you know.

Golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated.

>>34367684
You clearly don't understand how someone can manipulate someone else, gaslight them, lie to them. It has happened.

>>34367687
Most likely he is sociopathic and is not making this thread to get help but to use it as a public statement to persuade someone something about him or to use it against someone else. People like this are never fixed or get better. This is just being used as another medium because what he wanted he couldn't get a different way and he feels that this is a better way to do it

>>34367647
>there is literally nothing a woman can do which causes abusive behaviour in a non-abusive man

HAHAHAHA
Abusive women cause retalitory abusive men. You can also be an abusive man without having been abused by a women, but women can absolutely cause men to become abusive. It works both ways.

I had a grandmother who was crazy. Any time she didn't get her way about something she'd do something crazy. She slashed tires, (not mine) told police she didn't care if my mom fell on an icy driveway holding baby me. She broke several of my things threw dirt on my car and would throw things at me. Not once did I ever hit her back.

I'm not an abusive man, but I was glad for her death. There were times where I wanted to hurt her and I would've killed her if I could've gotten away with it just to stop my and my mothers suffering. It was so bad that we were afraid to talk to each other because of her outbursts when she would think we were plotting against her. Admittedly sometimes we were, but it was to keep the home stable or stop her from hurting someone or herself.

When you leave the house, you take out the trash. Simple as

>>34367696
Oh, and before you say I prove you point because I'm not abusive even though she was. I'm smart enough to know potential legal consequences. She still knew how to call police. If I could've abused her, without any threat of retaliation. I would have. I wouldn't want to abuse anyone who doesn't deserve it, but that bitch absolutely deserved every bad thing that happened to her.

>>34367689
How? I think they already have the upper hand. They got like 5 friends and one of them warns them of the guy, and they talk and the girl breaks up with him.

>>34367699
I would never harm a girl. To be perfectly honest there's only one person I would ever harm in this life and that's only after a specific thing happens.

There are no legal consequences when it's a one and done thing.

>>34367704
Whatever the process is their choice to reap the consequences. At that point my brain turns off and I just take action.

If someone gets their own nudes threatened against them, they're a boring and dumb faggot. Don't fucking send that shit if you're fucking uncomfortable with it being spread. Fucking retards. And you're just as retarded for wasting time on retards like that, retard. Not only do you waste her time, but you equally waste your own. Retarded faggot

The real problem is you are a retard who's got no fucking clue what he wants to do with his little life. An aimless wanderer, just like the majority of faggots these days

>>34367610
Atleast its a choice.

Nobody has the right to choose for anyone. Moral highgrounders needs to die

>>34367988
This. I got scammed for my dickpic once, I was 20 and retarded I know sue me. I was really scared at 1st but then I realized this pajeet fuck doesn't know anyone I know irl and basically has 3 photos of some random guy's dick on his harddrive lmao. Plus all of my friends either wouldn't care or have seen my dick anyway. The sex scammers work off of fear, by not having any they are powerless.

>>34367696
>I'm not an abusive man
Yes, you are.

>>34367223
try being alone.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-k9sTAYEQ

>>34367223
>I think I might be the problem.
We all are desperate for control in some aspect, even that there is so much in life we do not have control over. Once you get into a relationship with women, you have power. You like that power and also want her to stay so you can continue liking it, so you find ways to keep her that way.

It is selfish. You are acting based off of your own wants. You are even aware of it. You seem proud of breaking someone. I know I would be a hypocrite to judge though.

First off, try to fix the underlying issues. Where you are struggling in life in that you feel so little peace and what can you do to improve it? Besides self-improvement, you can try taking out frustrations in other ways. It is why I enjoy playing civilisation games, for instance. Also turning to religion can help with ego.

Another thing I would suggest is being alone. You have issues you need to work on. As of right now, you are a parasite to people. You are ruining the lives of those around you. If you do have a shred of actual compassion, it will lead to guilt down the road. Otherwise, if karma does exist, it will get you. What you are doing is evil.

>>34367223
Bullying the girl you like is the most fun thing there is, but it has to be contained and controlled. It has to be in a context you her already knowing you like her and are a nice person.

>>34367223
>I think I might be the problem.
You think?
The fact that you can at least recognize that you were abusing innocent women means that you aren't too far gone, but I don't think anyone on this site can help you. Go seek out a therapist.

>>34367223
>How do you know?
well from what you just told me, yeh, you are the asshole, and look you are trying to weasel out;
>maybe specifically my choice in women is the problem.
stop making it about them.
they probably had probolems too, but guess who else does? you and guess who you can actually help with those problems? yourself. stop being a cunt. simple as. opportunity to be a cunt? choose another path. it will feel like fear, like death, but it is the old bad you dying.

>>34369116
>i /was/ 18
>i /was/ 21
Kek

bump

>>34367223
You are obviously evil and controlling and proud of it. You seem to crave attention, so you are probably a narcissist. They called you a sociopath and they were probably right. You are a malignant narcissist. You were abused as a child and now you abuse other people. Look up stuff about malignant narcissism and see if that fits you. You could also be a secondary psychopath or something along those lines.

Ew op reminds me of my ex

But worse

>>34372528
>>34372530
Stop namefagging and go take care of your kids, elf.

it's alright anon. we've all been assholes to people, men and women. are you a Christian?

>>34372914
havent been to church in a while, but generally a christian/catholic

bump

>>34372528
what happen

Ignore the moralizing normies in this thread

The fact that you can soberly recap the whole thing shows you are not the problem. You need to remember that this generation of women are corrupted without exception and that some girls are just less overt about it than others. The girls you were with clearly weren’t angels, maybe one of them was nice to you but also a little hoeish, but not enough to warrant a breakup. That would certainly explain the quagmire you kept finding yourself in. Perhaps you felt it was your duty to correct her.

There’s nothing about you to fix or regress, you just need to sharpen your posture. Next time a bitch does something beneath you, drop her.

t. a conscientious man with a very similar story to yours

>>34383994
i feel like, im not consciously trying to be nasty to women, but it seems like they do something to me and i cant help but retaliate...

its in my nature

>>34388321
>its in my nature
Why are you brown

>>34388544
lol