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This is going to sound dumb, but is the type of porn a guy looks at actually an indicator that he wants, or is it just one of those in-the-moment things?
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>>34367829
Fantasy is not the same as reality. You can imagine skydiving being fun, then hate the actual experience. Fantasy is usually rooted in a particular feeling/ideal thou.
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>>34367847
Wouldn't the only way to know which is which be by doing it. Also, idk if it being a fantasy is any better.
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>>34367852
Not at all. The revulsion would be known from the get go. Also depends on what causes the fantasy. Feeling based ones are more clear, ideal ones less so (known vs unclear thing to reach for imo). BDSM is a great example for most. Also depends on how aware the person is of the root cause of a particular fantasy.
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>>34367847
>Fantasy is usually rooted in a particular feeling/ideal thou.
That is to say, fantasy comes from reality. It's not the same, but it's heavily related.

>>34367927
That being said, yes, self awareness is the biggest factor in whether or not the fantasy MEANS anything detrimental to your agendas

That is to say, is this fantasy actually a threat to whatever the fuck you are trying to accomplish?

Beats me
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>>34367829
For me it's definitely an in the moment kind of thing.
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I thought I would enjoy being cucked.

I didnt.
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>>34367829
no, there's a lot of cases where people tried things from porn that they thought they liked, but hated doing it
>>34370557
at least you know now
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>>34370557
Can you speak more on this? Ive been having thoughts lately...
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>>34368197
>is this fantasy actually a threat to whatever the fuck you are trying to accomplish?
Depends wholly on the fantasy, and person.
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>>34367829
If you look at porn and see no issue with it, you're a sexual degenerate. Until you completely cease with this Jewish psyop, do not connect with another human being romantically, it will lead to destruction as you'll confuse love with lust
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>>34372324
When was the last time you gooned, be honest



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