I was in a relationship with a great girl for about 2 years who cared about me and wanted the best for me and she was a go-getter. I was immature and unprepared and too much of a lazy loser and I got jealous and insecure. She would have tantrums and I would one-up her, which isn't what a man should do. She hates me now and blocked me. She loses it whenever my friend mentions me. She laughs and calls me names. She wants another man, he's taller and richer. She hates me and said she wants my stench off me.I am going to change for me and for her. But I feel like shit knowing that I messed up one of the best things that ever happened to me.What do I do beyond learn from my mistakes? What are the chances I'll get her back? How do I cope?
>>34369153What mistakes? You didn't make any mistakes.
>>34369153>What do I do beyond learn from my mistakes?You did not make a mistake. She was throwing tantrums. That can get annoying after awhile. It would break your soul - the best thing you could do is be away from her. Find someone more mature next time.>What are the chances I'll get her back?Probably not much. She blocked you already and found someone else, which is pretty telling of her maturity and commitment to you anyway. She might be trying to get "back at you" and does not actually like the guy, but you should not play into it regardless. Move on from her. >How do I cope?Focus on other areas of your life instead. If you need a while, so be it. Just shows you were a good man. Time will heal, and then when you are ready, you can find someone better.
>>34369153>What do I do beyond learn from my mistakes? Nothing. That's all you can do. >What are the chances I'll get her back?Absolutely no chance at all. Find someone else, and do better next time.
>>34369153It just sounds like she was a whore, move on she doesnt want you anymore
You'll be alright OP, she sounds like a handful and there's plenty of people out there that can match her looks/personality. Focus on yourself for awhile. If she comes crawling back one day you will have more leverage to make better decisions
>>34371352What?
>>34371792OP here, I have no idea what you're saying.
You'll be alright. She sounds like a slut.
