My luck with dating is really bad to the point where I can't really say I've ever dated anyone. I'm a 21M, my relationship experience is very limited. In high school I never had relationships or anything, so this is all very recent for me. Recently, I attempted to go out with someone who did always called off dates despite me initially asking her out and her accepting. In the past, I go out on a date or two and they end up losing interest after a while. I used to chalk it up to "they have a busy life" or "I was just unlucky this time!". I don't believe this to be the case. There is something wrong with me that causes women to lose interest. I am autistic, but I'm high functioning. I don't even have the smart people autism. It does make my voice sound really annoying, though. I am also bad with intimacy as a result. Never kissed a girl or anything before mostly because I don't know how and I'm afraid of being a creep. I don't know if that effects anything. I also don't have interest in the things normal guys have which makes me off-putting. Given that I'm on 4chan, I like video games and movies and am bad at talking about sports. I wouldn't be able to go into a bar (which I go maybe once-twice a month) and flirt with women because I'm not the type of guy a woman at a bar would gravitate towards. Those are all my theories, I have been thinking about this hard (perhaps overthinking) and I want to know if I'm accurate and if there's any hope for me in the future.
>>34370548You are probably just a nerd. Have you watched TV shows before? Women don't like nerds, they like jocks. Try to work out for a few years and gain some muscle mass.
>>34370548Probably haven't related to something more in my life, except for that I never went on a date before. Genuinely, I thought everyone has had their first kiss except for me. Also autistic too and afraid of approaching women for fear of being a creep, pretty much everything. I know that really isn't advice, but just know you are not alone. That and being overly aware of yourself. I would say to drink because it can sometimes help with that, but you never fully get rid of that self-awareness.> It does make my voice sound really annoying, though.What does this mean exactly though? Do you mean monotone, or that it is overly exaggerated?I think the fact you have had dates and are self-aware though is a good thing. It means you definitely have hope. You do not come across as the typical incel. I am sorry, I wish I could say something like get interesting hobbies or whatnot, but I have no idea how it works either lol. I am sure there are countless threads for advice about this though, your situation is one of many that I have seen, so in case you do not hear much, you should look at those. Best of luck.
>>34370548If you're getting girls to hang out with you and go on dates, you're actually doing pretty well. Problem is that women have an endless supply of choices that constantly keeps changing and they were getting better dopamine hits off their newer choices. It's happening to all of us.
