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I cut off my only friend of 16 years for repeatedly saying racist, transphobic and edgy shit. We are almost 30. I just feel sick hearing that hateful stuff now. But I keep thinking I've been too cruel or maybe I'm just a bitch, stuff like that. I don't regret it regardless. I need new friend(s) now tho
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>>34370900
You're actually supposed to ask for what you want first before cutting someone off.
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>>34370905
I did ask him to stop after he kept sending me anti-"tranny" images unprompted. I am a straight male so I guess he thought he was in good company with that stuff? Anyway immediately after that he was making jokes about black history month. The guy is autistic (genuinely) and won't learn. What's funny is he's a 5'4 hispanic, you'd think someone who gets discriminated against for things he can't change himself would know better
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>>34370900
>I cut off my only friend of 16 years for repeatedly saying racist, transphobic and edgy shit.
You sound like a huge faggot, OP. Go hang out on reddit.
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>>34370911
I thought it was funny when I was 12 years old too anon.
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>>34370916
I'm sure your tranny gf is proud of you for coming out.
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>>34370921
>if you aren't low IQ bigotcattle you must be part of an oppressed group
I'm literally a straight white male lol
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>I'm literally a straight white male lol
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>>34370900
it was probably a mistake to cut off your only friend over something that petty
unless you really had nothing in common anymore
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>>34370936
>unless you really had nothing in common anymore
This was the other issue since our "conversations" had become stale and boring (just repeating memes and ritual posting) but really, the tipping point for me was the hate speech.

It's not petty though. Since I've gotten older I actually affects my mental health pretending to tolerate casually hateful people.
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>>34370937
i'm guessing another mistake was probably you didn't do things together
if you just sit around in a room smoking weed & talking, or sit around talking on discord, you'll grow apart from ANYBODY and feel annoyed gradually
you need to be doing crazy shit together in order to maintain strong bonds/friendships, this is especially true as people get older
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not that you should blame yourself, just something to keep in mind in the future
>It's not petty though. Since I've gotten older I actually affects my mental health pretending to tolerate casually hateful people
that is fair
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>>34370909
>What's funny is he's a 5'4 hispanic
Groypoids and /pol/cels tend to be
>>34370929
Mexican
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>>34370900
If a 30 yo man cries about his mate saying transphobic shit, he’s a fag
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>>34371022
You are balding.

>NOOO YOU CAN'T MOCK MY BALD HEAD
Haha sensitive fag
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>>34370900
You did NOTHING wrong. You have the absolute right to choose who you socialize with, for whatever reason.
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>>34370900
this happens when you grow up. 4chan is obviously the worst place to talk about it though, since it's filled to the brim with millennials/gen x that never progressed their humor past 7th grade and call anyone who has matured from their edgy phase a "fag redditor" lol

they are actually stunted losers who need to blame their social failures on the "woke mind virus" because they are allergic to accountability
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>>34370900
Dude, I cut off my lifelong friend of 25 years after he stole like 300 dollars from me and I've regretted it for years because he died unexpectedly. If your friends important to you, or was, i would suggest trying to get past the petty shit.
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>>34371022
it's not "crying" to read a meme and just find it not funny. you don't even have to be offended to find something not funny. most of your edgy memes rely on the punchline "haha trans/gay/woman" and it's actually just, really boring, devoid of cleverness or wit of any kind, and repetitive lol
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>>34370900
>But I keep thinking I've been too cruel or maybe I'm just a bitch, stuff like that.
why? you have the right to choose who you want to be friends with kek
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>>34370900
idk how bad it was, but in my friend group there's a guy that likes to make/send edgy jokes, and hes a cool guy, we know he don't mean harm, my friend group there's a transguy and a trans woman, and they don't have any problem with that. We all know each other since we were 12yo, now we are 30+.
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nice bait lol
>bigotry is for 12 year olds
yeah, and old people
wonder why?
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>>34370900
>for repeatedly saying racist, transphobic and edgy shit
Or you could just accept that he's right and you're just in denial of reality.

>I need new friend(s) now tho
And you're saying this on 4chan? Reddit might more suitable for you if you want a friend who shares your delusions.
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>>34370909
You messed up by being friends with a spic in the first place
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>>34370909
>What's funny is he's a 5'4 hispanic, you'd think someone who gets discriminated against for things he can't change himself would know better
That's nonsense, the most racist person I ever knew was Pakistani.
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>>34370945
Literally this, I got tired of these "idle friends" quick, it's the ones that roadtrip the US with me or go to bars and shit that stuck around.
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>>34371022
>cries
It's more of an eye roll
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>>34370916
It's not funny but you are a massive faggot for getting asshurt over that stuff. I'm sure many ppl in your life have horrible views on stuff and you're not disowning them and no, your friend isn't worse because he's actually telling you. Then again moralfags like you like huffing their own fumes by thinking "im so enlightened" by not dealing with people who speak their mind. Do you honestly believe trannies aren't mentally ill? Do you really think the races and genders are equal? If you do then maybe you need to look under the hood as to why you're a societal yes-man rather than realizing he may have a point despite his immature delivery.

Also you said you don't really do anything with him so no shit idiot, you don't dislike his edginess, you dislike the fact you have nothing solid tethering you together.
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>>34370900
Cringe
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>>34370900
You're a shit friend. 16 years of loyalty and you throw it away because your friend didn't match up with your weird puritan standards.
I bet my left testicle (you) would hound someone identifying as Christian and think them a bad person if they said they got rid of their friend for a decade because he was blasphemous against God.

But if someone insults your precious social holy cow like trannies or sodomisers you get all offended. You're not even gay or a tranny, you are being offended on behalf of other people. That's fucking delusional and counts for fake virtue signalling. And the reason you do that is because you don't have virtues of your own, so you cling to appeasing cultural sacred cows or what you feel is socially acceptable.

You're a coward and a sheep. You are the type of person who would instantly sell out their friends or family to the Gestapo or Kremlin of we lived under a tyrannical system.
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>>34370900
It’s hard to find actual white friends like this. All the white people I know tell me to low key die because we are white scum.
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>>34371022
Men dont have feelings.
Or brain cells.
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>>34378401
Then why are they always the ones that crash and burn pursuing women
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>>34370900
you weren't actually anything if you cut off contact with someone over presumptive slights to imaginary people.
Just based on the fact that the logic is faulty, that leaves either insanity, or a different reason.

Did you not enjoy spending time with this person? That would be a much more logical explanation.
Or were you offended by what they said? If you were as good of a friend as you claim an appology would make more sense.
Just blocking them forver explains nothing, gives no opportunity to make it right, nor change a negative interaction.

My guess, no matter how heinous you think he is, you'll live to regret it like
>>34371229
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Damn, at least your friend has 1 less spiritually sodomized retard in their circle. Maybe you should go make friends with the local leftoid trannies, I'm sure you're going to find them to be extremely normal and pleasant people to be around lol.



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