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And people in general.
I may have some unresolved trauma.
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>>34371109
Why would you want to stop being based?
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>>34371109
Goes away when you spend less time on the internet consuming other incels' mental illness. Also helps to purge internet jargon from you vocabulary.
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>>34371129
Idk it doesn't get me any pussy
>>34371205
I felt that way even before using thw internet.
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>>34371109
Most foids are pretty chill. Theres no reason to hate them. They like to laugh and be dumb
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>>34371109
You don't get rid of that level of hatred for people. You're either a people person or you're not. But not everybody is terrible, its just harder for you to find them and you have to be open to building that initial connection.
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>>34371362
>Most foids are pretty chill
See, that's where I disagree. I grew up with a mysandrist feminist cunt of a sister. I hate her so much, it's unreal. And my nother was a helicoptering bitch
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>>34371363
Yeah. Most people really are terrible pieces of shit.
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>>34371392
Yea I said most. You got dealt a bad hand, won't disagree with you there
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>>34371363
Most people are subhumans and monsters that should be executed by a firing squad.
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>>34371487
FUCK. They fucking ruined me. Wtf can I do, lobotomize myself? Hypnotize myself into believing that women never treated me horribly? FUCK FUCK FUCK. I could have had it so much easier with the ladies. FUCK.
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>>34371496
This. So much this. The entertainment wants you to believe that the typical main character is the majority of people, when in reality that's the exception.
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if you TRULY hate them that would give you unlimited power as you would no longer care what anyone thinks about you.

you are just scared of people and girls
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>>34371660
Yes, I am scared too
I'm also kinda autistic
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>>34371109
Lay your eyes upon Virgin Mary. Then just apply her standard to every other woman and you'll see that not one can compare - The greatest girlboss in history ws a humble and obedient maid, who remained a perpetual virgin.
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>>34371884
How is this supposed to help me? This only makes me hate foids more!
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>>34371884
The cuck of all nations (abraham)
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>>34371205
It doesn't. You try to interact with normies, they reject you, and then you get thrown into a deeper state of anger at the world.
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>>34372118
>normies
Self report
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>>34372129
Self reporting what?
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>>34372057
Then it's self confidence, you look around and see those "foids" which have more than you, some are richer, more successful, more educated, but none have the history which would make them like you, you are unique, and in some aspects batter than a lot of them. Don't compare yourself to them directly, hold yourself and them to a common standard (like being a good person and helping others). This hatred will vanish quickly, trust me, it happened to me
>>34372113
SAAR, Don't you have to fight Pakistanis or glaze Israel on the internet?
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>>34372292
No, I meant this makes me hate foids more BECAUSE they're not like the virgin Mary.
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>>34371109
Ask why they bother you more than other equally loathsome people out in the world? What about women sets you off?
Additionally, ask yourself if you have personally come into contact with the worst "foid" examples you can think of. Has the teller at the bank done anything to deserve your enmity? The cashier at the grocery store? If so, why? Do you typically assume they have detestable qualities despite not witnessing them yourself? Are there particular women in your life that treated you poorly?
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>>34372129
would you rather i type "neurotypical"?
Same thing.
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>>34372359
>What about women sets you off?
Them not noticing or praising me.The double speech. Them not saying what they actually think. The hot girls not going for me because of my neurodivergency :( or for whatever other reason they come up with but won't even tell me. All the rejections.

>ask yourself if you have personally come into contact with the worst "foid" examples
Yes. My sister is a retarded mysandrist feminist cunt and I had to grow up with that bitch. My mother is a helicoptering bitch who never listens. I don't have anything against customer service people because I already know they're paid to be nice. So I'm not worried about them.

>Do you typically assume they have detestable qualities despite not witnessing them yourself?
For women in general, yes. It's like a knee-jerk reaction. I see a foid, and all of my (bad) memories I've had with women flare up, all at once. Distorting my view the second I seee them.

>Are there particular women in your life that treated you poorly?
My female family members except for my grandma, and every basically feminist or other retarded and entitled women out there.

Fuck, I know my thinking is irrational, but I can't seem to just turn it off. Should I turn to drugs for help? I heard meth is good for this. Clavicular is autistic and he said it helped him overcome his low inhibition or something.
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Bump
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>>34371109
Yeah, it sounds like being controlled and emotionally manhandled by women during your childhood tweaked you out. I could tell you all the great things about women: that they rarely kill, rarely rape, step up for the needy, they’re charitable, and they voluntarily constitute the backbone of our caretaking industries. They’re also fun to hang out with, and are expressive and energetic. But I doubt it would have any sway if I harped on these things.

Honestly, I’d go to a therapist who specializes in childhood trauma. Don’t try meth, don’t try to medicate it away. You’re still young. You just have to start taking personal inventory like you’re doing now, see that it’s kind of irrational, and push yourself towards a paradigm shift to improve your life. Therapists (the good ones) know how to do that. Also, if women’s rejections and the equivocations related to them are the majority of your issue, I think your hatred is misplaced. Women just happen to be in the “job interviewer” role of dating and you just happen to be getting rejected by them. We could put you in any other environment (actual job interviews, getting picked for a sports team, etc) and given enough instances, you’ll hate the category of rejector. You’ll be fine, though. Just keep unspooling this thread of hate, and you’ll get to the core and fix it
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>>34380256
Thank you for the W effortpost.
As you've said, all the positive traits in women you've listed is nice, but I just found myself getting angry reading them because that isn't what I received or experienced at all.
And yes, I've unraveled the thread of hate as you've put it, and discovered that it's actually fear of women that is holding me back. All these fucking years I've been self-sabotaging myself. I'm already 27. Once a girl even wanted to fuck me but because of my psychosis I didn't act upon it, I didn't believe that I was worth it.
I really wanna murder my entire fucking family, holy shit. I've also mixed up the feelings for my family with sexual attraction to random hot women. God, why am I so fucking retarded.
Therapy might help but it costs money and I'm a student right now. Fuck my chud incel brokie life.
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Bump
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>>34371884
didn't she cuck her husband?
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>>34384356
With God? Possibly
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Bump
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>>34371356
>"hates" foids
>wants pussy
yea sure buddy. you dont hate foids youre just larping.
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>>34371109
>trauma
Look mom my magic get out of consequences free card
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>>34371884
>who remained a perpetual virgin.
How'd the baby pass through her hymen
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>>34374603
>My sister is a retarded mysandrist feminist cunt and I had to grow up with that bitch. My mother is a helicoptering bitch who never listens.
Now tell us why your father ran out on your family
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>>34388545
You're right, I'm actually just scared or disgusted or autistic or something
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>>34388550
It's true though! I got severely bullied and fucking abused. And it's my responsibility to handle it.

>>34388558
My father was a raging screaming asshole who insulted my manliness too, but in different ways. Like, he didn't want a femboy as a son. I got over him though.
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>>34371356
I'm saying that when you're based, you won't want it
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>>34390754
.... But I DO want it
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Try hatesex
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>>34390853
Sounds hot, never tried it
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>>34374603
The thing is, anon, women are half the population. I am genuinely sorry that happened to you with you family, but I think it’s important that you not think of them as inherently alien or even all that different from you, because they aren’t. Your sister isn’t a representation of every woman the same way she isn’t a representation of every (list of arbitrary traits she possesses). “Woman” is just one signifier among many and communicates nothing about moral worth. It’s a coinflip whether you end up male or female.

Me personally I’ve been lucky to have a lot of great women in my life, which helps, but part of what’s shifted my perspective the most is just thinking about how it’s luck that I am the way that I am and nothing more. I’m not the default, and “female” isn’t a modifier attached to the average person, who is male. To them, /female/ is the default. If you’re really empathetic, it could aid your thinking to consider how bad it would make you feel to be considered subhuman or not a full person because of something you can’t control, right? That was also a big part of it for me. I have a hard time with unfairness, and so I put myself into their shoes and get upset because it seems unfair.

I hope this is helpful, but if not, I get it. Sorry about your upbringing, man, that sounds rough.
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>>34371109
I will never understand how niggas have trouble talking to women and getting laid. Im a fat peice of shit and i have no trouble with women. Seek therapy.
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>>34392046
Yeah that didn't really help. But I appreciate the effort. My nervous system got really fucked up.
I try to view them as individuals. But like, why do you think women were 2nd class citizens for most of human history?
Anyway, I'd need like a lot of positive women in my life to balance it out or something
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>>34392208
Girls are scary, man
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>>34371109
Exposure therapy
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Time and continued interaction with them can help a lot if you're open to it. It certainly helped me tremendously. But until you are, it won't matter for shit.
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>>34397695
I'm open to it and am thankfully meeting women who are mysandrist pieces of shit. But there seem to be quite a lot of these feminists out there.
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>>34397726
I suppose it could also depend on things like your social circles, occupation, where you live, etc. But personally I just don't experience that much of it. I see a hell of a lot of sexism from women, but honestly I'm fine with that. Male or female, if you're not a little sexist, you're up to something and I don't trust you. But I rarely see full-blown hatred. Most women I talk to just have normal conversations with me. Most people aren't hung up on retarded social issues that much; they're too busy trying to get through real life.
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>>34397726
*who aren't mysandrist
>>34397754
Yeah I guess my family is just that retarded or I just had terrible luck
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>>34371884
This. I regularly listen to nuns singing because it reminds me that not all women are horrible.
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>>34371109
Stop using this website and start talking to and interacting with people in the real world .
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>>34393856
>But like, why do you think women were 2nd class citizens for most of human history?
Fake feminist narrative. Women were always coddled and protected. Women were at home playing with the kids and cooking while their husbands worked 16 hour shifts in the coal mines. Women were gossiping and handing out white feathers while men were getting their legs blown off by artillery in wars. At no point in history were any serious obligations ever put on women or were they ever put into danger. They basically had life on easy mode, consequently, the only thing men got in return for sacrificing their lives for their family was respect. Women wondered why they weren't getting the same respect for puffing their faces with expensive perfume that men were getting for supporting the whole family and nation on their backs, and spun this narrative that they were oppressed.
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>>34371109
by stop being an incel, oh wait you cant hence your impotent rage
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>>34398794
I already talk and interact with people irl
Should I just do it more
fugg
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>>34398798
Well yeah, that still sounds like 2nd class citizenship, however with really good perks. It's like from the point of view of power and respect, men are 1st class, and from the viewpoint of comfort, women are 1st class.
So the narrative isn't really fake, but it isn't completely true either.
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>>34398832
How do I stop being an incel? Should I go on looksmax.org or incel.org?



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