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Disclaimer, I have always liked to chase women and see how far can I get and where will the small teasing and conversations and tension would get me. I always liked the hunt more than the prize, I usually lost interest very easily as soon as I got the girl.
Eventually I got married of course, but I never stopped the small chases and small talks. This is called emotional cheating as I understand, I'm not really cheating on my wife, never touched a woman aside from her, but the fun is still going on.
Is there a way to stop of refocus the energy elsewhere? It's not detrimental but I'm afraid I'll fall some time in the future, especially since these married women around my age are extremely easy. I actually love my wife and consciously wouldn't do anything to harm her and wouldn't touch these easy women with a pole. But if the stars align and I get some extreme hot reciprocity I might not be strong enough to say no.
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>>34372000
>emotional cheating
i get the concept but that is some woke bullshit
>if the stars align and I get some extreme hot reciprocity I might not be strong enough to say no.
i think you will be, just cement it into your mind every day that the only answer is now, imagine the damage it would do to your life and for what? one fuck? not worth it, remember your wife in all those situations, you will soon find other outlets. you like the hunt? have you tried actual hunting?
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>>34372198
>the only answer is no*
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I feel you bro we are a rare breed. Validation from the woman (or whatever you want to call it) is way better than sex. If I was going to fuck random girls I would need to use a condom and I would rather just jack off than fuck with a condom.
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>>34372000
I don't have advice, but
>Disclaimer, I have always liked to chase women and see how far can I get and where will the small teasing and conversations and tension would get me.
How do you get better at this?
I enjoy the tension and push/pull without getting anywhere but I suck at it.
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>>34372257
>I feel you bro we are a rare breed
there are many attractive and socially skilled men with terrible mommy issues. You are not special.
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>>34372000
this sounds like some sort of pathological behavior
it's not even morally wrong, just self-destructive
probably stems from some past events
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>>34372257
>>34373295
>rare breed
psychologically kinked*
validation/intimacy issues or osmething



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