so i got """groomed""" ie had a relationship while underage and after some family found out it became like a foundational myth in my family ie the one single thing anyone ever talks about at the fucking dinner tablebecause of that i now have to get therapy so i thought i would get some actual use from it by using it for what actually bothers me which is that my partner that """groomed""" me broke up w/ me because i was emotionally unavailable (i could barely keep contact because i had no privacy) which had shattered my self-imagebut instead of ever giving me help to get through this the therapist only ever engaged with me to try and twist my memory of my ex into this horrible monster and when i did ask to try to work with me on my self esteem that was like a springboard towards demonizing him againi've asked to change therapists already once and did but the second one is even more boneheaded and instead of simply disagreeing with me and changing the subject uses all the tricks in his book to try and trip me up into seeing things like him and use my words against mewhat am i supposed to do?
to clarify: i am not breaking any rules by posting here,i am of legal age
>>34372399How old were you and how old was the person and what did you do? Are you sure it was grooming?
your post screams "i'm a clueless teenager" multiple timesyou should pull your fucking head in
>>34372399>i've asked to change therapists already once and did but the second one is even more boneheaded and instead of simply disagreeing with me and changing the subject uses all the tricks in his book to try and trip me up into seeing things like him and use my words against me>what am i supposed to do?stop seeing therapistsyour family are dickheads, get away from them
