Not that I'm out here doing Ted Bundy shit but it's a bit distressing to see that women are terrified of my presence. I've never laid a finger on anyone in my life and while I try not to take it personally since dangerous men obviously do exist and you never know what a stranger might do, I find that most women I encounter get very nervous and uncomfortable around me and I'm not sure why. I do take care of my appearance and hygiene, I'm not downright hideous, I don't stare them down or act creepy or whatever, I barely even acknowledge their existence out in public and yet something about me is tripping up their alarm system. I don't want them to be afraid, I absolutely hate that I'm making them feel this way but I don't know what's causing it.
what do the women say that indicates their distress/discomfort
>>34374096Can't be helped all women are scared of men, the ones who seem comfortable around men only got good at suppressing the fear. Women have always been afraid of us, it's instinctual. We're larger than them, we are stronger, and we are born with innate aggression and capability to kill which we as men have to keep in control, women don't. Don't get me wrong I'm not saying women are holy and men are somehow wicked, God knows there's extremely twisted women, they might not be scary physically but mentally there's so many batshit women out there. But even the batshit ones are scared of us. Don't take it personally it's just logical: Fact is we do have the capability to kill them and overpower them at any moment. That's why females are the 'selective' sex. They look for the man who has a capability for it, yes, but is not willing to hurt her. Strong but kind. She will still fear him but at that point it becomes an attractor.
You have be nice in a very human way rather than a perfect way. It is a way in which you are more yourself.
>>34374096You're scared of women and that's making them scared of youIf you can find a way to be at ease people will feel comfortable around you
>>34374102It's not really about what they say but what their body language is like. They get fidgety and start stuttering or avoiding eye contact when they see me. A lot of them have their feet facing away if they're standing up (telltale sign that they want to GTFO) or crossed arms. For strangers it's a bit more obvious, often times they keep their distance or cross the street, I've had women stop dead in their tracks if I come around a corner. If I'm walking and a group of them are up ahead and they notice me they immediately stop talking, resuming once I pass (or just cross the street, it's 50/50 for groups). It just feels really really tense, like they're expecting me to do something to them. I don't know how else to explain it, really.Mind you I'm not disfigured or ugly, if I'm being objective I would say I'm a 5 out of 10. Not really a handsome dude but again, not downright hideous. I would look like your average guy in his 20's, not really standing out in anything (that I would notice at least).>>34374121Well that was depressing to read. Maybe it's a cope but I want to believe that most women that are afraid of men had absolutely awful experiences with them in the past and they come to associate us with danger because of that. I don't want to believe that they're afraid of us by instinct like you claim.
>>34374096>I barely even acknowledge their existence out in publicThis is actually part of what's making them nervous. If a man gets in an elevator with me I want to make eye contact and smile at each other THEN ignore each other.If you are very large there's nothing to be done about it. I'm sorry.
>>34374167>Well that was depressing to read. Maybe it's a cope but I want to believe that most women that are afraid of men had absolutely awful experiences with them in the past and they come to associate us with danger because of that. I don't want to believe that they're afraid of us by instinct like you claim.It's not as bad as you think. Women have normalized the fear and can deal with it. But it really isn't surprising, think about it, try to see it through their perspective. If you are a woman you:>Weight less>Are shorter in average>Have less muscle mass>Less bone density>Have slower reflexes>Have a body that's more hypersensitive to pain >Have one week each month of lethargy and vulnerability (periods)>If you get pregnant, 9 months of fatigue and bodily enfeeblementNow imagine being in a world where your opposite, the men, weigh more than you pound for pound, are larger and taller, broader, have more muscle mass, can throw punches, and have none of the natural physical setbacks and to top it all off are more prone to feeling aggression or anger when faced with stress. (Women typically go into hysteria or melancholy).You too would have a nagging feeling in the back of your head that you could be killed. Women are fine with it, even women who are non abused have this cautionary instinct but they don't let the fear affect them. If they've chosen well, they feel safe. If they've got a big strong man to protect them they're happy as shit about it.
>>34374096You must prove it one woman at a time.Just kidnap one, tie her up in some dark soundproofed basement or remote cabin in the woods where noone can hear her scream and then show her a bunch of tools like knifes, garden shears, electric prods, stuff like that.Make her eat all the eggs.And then just release her again. Now she knows that even though you could hurt her, you choose not to because you're a decent human being.Then kidnap the next woman and repeat. Soon the word will spread of what a good person you are and noone will be afraid anymore.Alternatively, if you're really not dressed like a weirdo or smell of onions or something, just stop caring.If you always pay attention to how women feel, they notice that you're paying attention to them and become tense. Just find something better to think about.Also, women nwadays are constantly bombarded with scary news about how Jennifer (21) was raped and beheaded after some random dude mistook basic courtesy for affection and got mad that she wouldn't entertain his delusions.The scariest newspieces get the most attention and society is turning more and more low-trust all the time anyways.I think you'll just have to live with women being a bit wary of you.
>>34374096a) read charisma myth by cabaneb) ensure you're not blocking the only exit and there are normal people around who (in the mind of the woman) will intervene if you try to rape and murder her>>34378766good advice
Studies show it’s actually more effective for getting laid if women perceive you as scary than handsome
>>34379157not true at all, ask prabjit
>>34374096>I absolutely hate that I'm making them feel this wayfagembrace it
>>34379157Sauce?
>>34374167its just one of the burden of being a maleyou cant change it. imagine you were a petite woman and a huge bloke is crossing the corner, if he has any ill intention he could literally just grab you and do whatever an example would be imagine back when you were 5 years old and going alone on a street, thats about how women feel
