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and yeah most people who struggle with making connection are usually very high on ruminating, negative thinking and just overall pessimism

i dont know if this personality is the reason they cant make friends or vice versa
like they lack connection and just fry their brain and worsen their situation

>>34376874
>No one [...] go out looking on techniques on
>or how to interact when you friend does this and that
And that's why the world's so shit, people don't fkn analyse and reflect and (and they) stay retarded instead (in their obsolete/outdated, backwards ideologies and ways)

>you have to be a normal dude or person and just be street smart
>i think most of the people who usually struggle with this shit are just retarded or mentally incapacitated
And how do you think they got to that level of "street smart"? By hanging out/left to fend for themselves on the streets and learning the ins and outs of it (adapt), not staying retarded and mentally incapacitated staring at screenshit and never taking a single risk just staying in their little stupid bubbles

>>34376874
Theory 3: medicate the fish and clean the tank
And buy him a female fish while you're at it

And a Maserati

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>>34376874
>its just something ur blessed with
>other than that any attempt to "make friends or find a girl for that matter" is just pathetic and needy and gives off desperate
>(im just like that ngl rn at least)
>do you get my point?
it's less "something you're blessed with" or "random good event"
it's more like, relationships take care of themselves when you're "living properly" whatever that means
but yes, you're on the right track OP

i hope people listen, but i dare not read the replies to this thread...

>>34376916
>And that's why the world's so shit, people don't fkn analyse and reflect and (and they) stay retarded instead (in their obsolete/outdated, backwards ideologies and ways)

you don't even need ideology to explain that. people just suck at change and excel at delaying entropy in various ways to justify not changing. I bet you could think of 3 easy examples of this without even trying.

>>34376874
>i think most of the people who usually struggle with this shit are just retarded or mentally incapacitated SOMEHOW no matter the reasons thats not the point


you may be looking for a novel explanation for something we've already known, but its not really novel anon.

did you need any /adv/?

put the fish in the sea

>>34376874
>i think most of the people who usually struggle with this shit are just retarded
Most of the people looking for advice on "how to make friends" have autism. It comes naturally to normal people.

>>34377128
EXACTLY or some kind of mental illness or has been personality doomed

>>34377085
>did you need any /adv/?
yeah?

>idk if im right or wrong and if this is correct
i know this wont benefit me or anything ig
but wanted to check with you and see if any agreed disagreed and so on

am i right or wrong about thinking that

and how can someone just "find friends and find a girl"
if he is just autistic or retarded in someway (assuming what i said was correct)

>>34377128
Nah I live in a city with a lot of transplants and basically every adult has the same issue of making new friends while not becoming an alcoholic in the process.

>>34376874
I'm with you on the title. Everything you write after that is confused and self-defeating.

How do you get a friend or a girlfriend? You meet a lot of people. Some among them are amiable enough that you enjoy each other's company. You tend to hang out with the ones you like and who like you. Some of THOSE you feel particularly close to. They become friends or girlfriends

>>34378475
it comes normally to some people its not as easy as you think from the other side's prespective