I came about 12 times in the last 12 hours boys, maybe more. It doesn't take long, about 3-7 minutes each. I do it to porn or to girls I matched with on dating apps I recently opened. So far I've matched with 3 girls, one is an uninterested fat, one is a busy and now uninterested asexual, and the other is a single mother who I really thought was interested, but has now not responded for the whole day. I want it so bad, I've tried everything, I'm 29, I was cheated on by 5 years ex who's still with that guy over 2 years later. I'm alone in a foreign country without family, and I don't speak the language here.It's so difficult bros. I don't want to do the whole hobby thing anymore, I don't care. These are all distractions for people who nut inside a woman, they are fun activities when you have a partner but when you don't - they're just distracting from the main goal. What to do to get success on dating apps faster? 1) I know physical health comes first, so I should start gym, grooming, clothes, then better pics2) Do I pay? Do people who succeed with these apps pay?I'm done hobbymaxxing, it's not working for me. I'm deathly afraid of initiating irl, I need the apps to do the carrying for me by finding women who already want a partner today, instead of having to guess. Having to guess feels so unnatural to me as my parents never taught me anything about relationships and I've never ever had success irl only on Reddit and so, with the crutches of dating apps I feel like I can do it. Give me advice please
>>34378128>I'm alone in a foreign country without family, and I don't speak the language here.If you want to have a happy life then you have to return home. It would probably be a big economic downgrade but you’re never going to be happy as a foreigner gooning at home.
>>34378128Go back home or learn the language. You basically have zero chance if the woman have to speak in a foreign language just for you.
>>34378145I'm originally from Israel, there's nothing happy there. I'll take a chud lonely life here and end up killing myself over going back
>>34378152The thing is I'm in the Netherlands, where the guys are tall and everyone speaks perfect English. So basically the girls can still be attracted to me, I'm just 5'7, and average here is like 6 foot
>>34378128Have you tried loving yourself?
>>34378128Be happy. Be interesting. Be friendly. Be open to meeting others
>>34378297Don't Israelis speak English too?
>>34378470Used to love myself until recently, 2 years of being alone after having everything taken away from me have undone that love and the excitement for life that I had, that being said, if I meet a girl on a dating app I think I can mask how desperate and lonely I am until she catches feelings, at which point I'll break out of the negative feedback loop of rejection and actually start feeling some self worth, which in turn will mean I'm not masking anymore, and I'm just feeling good and confident as I did back when I get a gf>>34378492Yeah, and indians too, but why would I want to associate with either?
>>34378294Based stay out of the middle east. Nobody wants you there retard.
Physical health thing is a shit test, hot white teens will date an ape that shits his pants.I also see them date men that have nasty teeth and poop breath.
>>34378559Yes I agree, but, this is about dating apps.I'm a man who doesn't have the bravery or the skill or the knowledge to approach women irl, I need the dating apps to put me infront of a willing female, suddenly everything becomes so much easier. So the question of the thread was about dating apps advice for success on dating apps, and I think looking great and having great photos is one of those things.
>>34378526Cool, I don't want them either, with all those sad songs on the radio and tv and any store playing 24/7. Legit depression mode
>>34378128Update on my 3 matches: I asked the asexual one for a call and we actually called for 4 and a half hours and have a date on Tuesday, she's really cool. It's going to be my first date in... Uhh.. 10 years, literally 10 years. I asked fat one for a call too, she was busy for a second time, and so I think she's out. Single mom has me ghosted unfortunately, so that's done for. I mean, a date is something I didn't expect to get I'm gonna be real with you. She's autistic, but seems like a really down to earth and nice girl. Hopefully we have a good time.She's fat and a virgin, that's the only reason why she described herself as asexual, but I'll be real I just want a person in my life, I'm going to be attracted to her soul and through that to her body. Hope it works out for me boys.
>>34378294ok but you could still go live in an english-speaking country since you at least know this language
>>34378524If you speak English and everyone in the Netherlands speaks English, where's the language problem?
>>34381218I've experienced it on my flesh that even though living here is easy, and people easily switch to English or even start with English naturally in daily life; when it comes to dating there's still a strong segregation with girls where they're looking for a Dutch speaking person and I'm not even in the cards for them. That's my biggest penalty alongside not being ethnically Dutch, and being 5'7 in a land of 6'0 average height. So I'm not pointing out to any one specific disadvantage but with all of them put together I'm stacking negative modifiers on a scale unseen in the US, which is where most of you are posting from.So my matches are barely existent, but looks like I got at least SOME matches now that I'm 20kg lighter than last year. I'm about 87kg now, used to be 106For normal weight I still have to lose almost as much weight as I've already lost. But yeah, picture quality is already to the point where I can look okay in some photos, still got the cheeks, but I'm close to the cheek fat-loss cutoff point.I actually have my first date in 10 years on Tuesday, met some autistic asexual girl from okcupid but honestly I'm not above that. Give me any more advice I just need to lock in..
