Is it normal to just sort of be in a constant state of agony and misery while being in a relationship? Is that ever going to go away? I don't want to have to dump her, but ever since we started dating I feel like my life isn't really mine anymore, if that makes sense.
>>34379072Kinda. It probably means you're a retarded pussy. I was the same way. You basically need to trust her and yourself enough to ignore her/forget she exists from time to time. Probably got fear of abandonment or some other similar stupid thing. Unless you have specific issues. Then idk, nigger.
first love? lol yeah bro you are gonna be in for a world of hurt but you kind of need this in order to learn the nature of women and how to keep them in line. Women have been engaged in non-violent power struggles since they were in middle school. They treat their friendships as mock relationships complete with betrayal and arguments and "getting back together as friends" and everything. You are like a guy off the street who is entering the octagon with a dagastani who has beein training from childhood and wrestling bears in preparation. You are hopelessly outmatch and she is going to wipe the floor with you. But as I say. You need this experience, you will learn and rise from the ashes and never let a bitch step out of line again.
>I feel like my life isn't really mine anymoreThat's what a relationship is. Wait until you have to worry about kids.