I'm a 21 year old virgin male and I jack off I'd say a moderate amount. I usually do it every other day or two days but when I do it I usually do it 2x in a day. I rarely watch real porn since I don't like how played up it is, It usually hentai games/rule 34 for me, and I think its messing with how I view sex a little. I understand its not supposed to be realistic, but it always has women who are nymphomaniacs that just have and unlimited sex drive and guys with 10in dicks that can last multiple rounds. Not only that, some of the stuff I jack off to involve ntr, where the protag is always a dude who either has an incredibly small dick, cant satisfy their partner, or both. It makes me wonder how many women are actually like this and how much being good at sex matters. Mine is above average but I really don't wanna be in a situation where I cant satisfy my partner because I cant last long enoughI would look around on the internet and see a lot women who've had sex talk about how size doesn't matter that much and don't really like orgasming more than once, but I also hear that a lot of women like to orgasm multiple times in one session. I understand that it easier for women to do that since they have like a nonexistent refactory period, but it still makes nervous if I might possibly underperform when (or if at this point) the time comes. How do I stop letting this affect me bad just enjoy porn for what it is?
>>343810251) John Wick etc are not real, they're fiction. Porn is also not real. They film what brings in views. Porn is based off dopamine, dopamine runs off novelty, porn has to be novel, not realistic, that's what the directors shoot. It's a product. If you expect to learn self defence from John Wick you're a retard. Same for porn. 2) You're a virgin who reads ntr/hentai. Important mythbusting: women have their own will same as you. No woman on earth got mindbroken by cock against her will. Same as you are not going to be mindbroken by extra tight pussy or big tits against your own will. It's impossible, it's not strong enough of a stimulus and a complete fantasy (common in porn).3) Sex is in the head, primarily. If it was about physical sensation, people would just fuck onaholes/dildos. If the woman is aroused because of her own thoughts about the situation, she will love the sex. If not, she won't care no matter the dick/stamina. HER OWN thoughts. It's her life, her life experiences/tastes that cause her to be aroused; you can at best guess the mental buttons which to push. Most women like to feel wanted, this is one common ground. They also often get off on being "dominated" but not in a porn way where they are handled rough but rather like you're this confident badass pirate captain from a bodice ripper novel, then it depends on the woman what she wants the pirate captain to do, be gentle and romantic or whatever else.>cant last long enoughYou're conditioning yourself for PE by fapping. You can goon/edge, but you can't cum, at all, ever. You have to teach your body to dissociate arousal, dick stimulation, and ejaculation. You also have to teach your body to dissociate hip movement/psoas engagement from tensing pelvic floor. Basically get an onahole or something and edge with it while moving your hips and trying to poop/fart (relaxes pelvic floor, ask ai). Takes months of not cumming but removes PE unless it's genetic.
>>34381025Size does matter but like 6-7 inches is the female ideal based on studies. So not crazily big.Anyways I'm a virgin too, and I'm multi-orgasmic most of the time, and it's not very good. You're never satisfied. From what I've heard it can be trained. I don't think I was always multi orgasmic. I just used to edge a lot and then eventually I lost my refractory period. So maybe try that?
Porn tends to be exaggerated. That says a lot.
>>34381025Nigga just be happy you're above average. I'm only 6 inches and it's trash af to be this size. Size matters the most, even if people say it doesn't. So just be glad you didn't get fucked on that
>>343897756 is slightly above average what are you talking about
