>have made no real friends>being socially starved but doing nothing in order to make friends>have no clue where to make friends and if I did then I wouldn't find someone I'd actually like>had a gf which was a great replacement for having a group of fake friends but we split, left me unwanting to having anybody due to how it went down>preferring to be quiet in uni, finding a free bench where people don't usually go>thinking I'll be judged for fucking anything always, even random laughs made me believe it's about me but I just stopped caring which made me feel better>believing that the only reason women look at me is because I did something weird/look weird but I've been told by few that I'm a "catch", not believing a single word they sayjust, how the fuck do I change it. I'm sick of being a doomerfaggot and I get no validation or joy from this. I want to hang out with people and make something meaningful out of my life dammit. I don't want to keep believing "my real life hasn't started yet"
>>34381159You overestimate other people's social lives. People aren't out "le making friends", they are seeing the same old people from highschool/college and work people on fridays, maybe a few friends of friends. Very few people are out "making friends"Other people are pragmatic, if being friends with (You) is genuinely a no brainer, they will do it, because they are pragmatic and have judged you are a good person to be friends with. Nowadays that isn't about honor or character it's about "Is this guy fun/funny, makes me feel good and is good vibes for conversation? Do they do stuff I do like climbing, clubbing or whatever?" So try to see yourself 3rd person and make yourself a more appealing friend option. And drop the self fulfilling prophecy shit because that goes nowhere and it only gets worse as you age
>>34381222Not OP however is it true that most people stay in touch with high school friends for a long time afterwards? Because with me I lost contact with my 1-2 friends after graduating, so my soccial circle is zero.>>34381159You sound somewhat like me only im 19M.
>>34381159Finding friends now is like pulling teeth. Like the other anon said, most of my friends are just my buddies from high school/early college. So, there’s nothing wrong with you in particular, it’s just brutally lonely out there in the real world unless you change your strategy. If you’re 22, the best thing you can do is develop an interest in something through which people socialize: I’m talking fitness clubs, chess clubs, discord servers, trading cards, whatever. Genuine interest in a mutual subject is the king of all icebreakers. You’re 22, so invite somebody or a group of people out for a drink sometime when the day is done. Have two, chit chat, use the time getting a beer (or coffee, or boba) to plan another hang, and then head home early and get to bed. Also, I meet friends at work. It depends on the job, but if you ask about someone’s life at work enough, eventually a click will happen and they’ll be more keen to spend some time with you outside of work. Remember that these things snowball and compound: you meet their friends, then meet their friends’ friends, etc, etc.Those are practical, actionable advices, but core to the issue is your approach to socialization. I don’t know how you talk to people, but the secret for me has always been taking a genuine interest in how people are and what is going on in their world. The role of the active listener is sorely missed these days. If you fulfill it, people attach to you. Begin now with idle questions about weekend plans, interests, and their opinions. Good luck!
So if you’re smart enough to be this self aware you should be smart enough to just let it go and find something else to concern you with. My advice? Don’t put a single though of energy towards extroverted trannies
>>34381159Have tried VR porn with onahole or having fun some other way?
