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I'm a very bitter and envious person. I don't like seeing people I know doing better than me in life. I start resenting them even if we're friends. Are you also like this?
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Yes
Don’t let anyone see it though
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Yes and I don't judge you because I know that deep down I am better than this and I know you are too.
But you have to suppress pride and envy, you cannot indulge in them.
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Yeah but I use it as a motivator
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No I direct all my hate at myself
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No
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>>34381860
I think this anon is right. It's probably your subconscious screaming that you should be doing better in life.
It will eventually full after being ignored for a while, but it doesn't mean you shouldn't strive for improvement. Start some projects, educate yourself. Have something in your life.
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>>34381957
Yea, you have to distract yourself from the feeling. Don't push it away, but let it pass through you and redirect you to what you know you can do right now, today to improve. Bit by bit.
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>>34381858
This is not an advice thread
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>>34381858
I feel bad for your friends.
or maybe they're your friends because they're like you, in which case I don't.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-k9sTAYEQ
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Comparison is the thief of joy. Whilst you can't help how you feel, it's objectively stupid to be envious of others- the only person you should care about being better than is your past self
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Sure, but I don't, like, sabotage others because of it. Remember, you don't know everything about another's circumstances. Maybe Chad Thundercock who has everything come easy does exist, but I dunno man



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