>love my pregnant wife>met some other younger girl online, fell in love with her too>wife has always been into BDSM (I'm not), so we recently agreed to open up the relationship in terms of sex, she gets to see femdoms whereas fuck other girls. We haven't started to do any of this but it's in the plans.>wife has suggested in the past that sister-wives type situations sound fun>but when brought up to her, she doesn't want toHow the FUCK do I manage this situation? I want both. I think there's a way for me to be able to have this other girl as my girlfriend while also keeping my wife. We have extra rooms in the house.I don't know. I think I love the new girl more. She's low key mentally ill, but she's prettier than my wife (and my wife is really pretty), and I don't know I feel like I'm addicted to her.I just need to play my cards right. I need advice.
>>34381882bad idea.
>>34381902what would you have me do
>>34381882>fell in loveYou don't know what this means.>agreed to open up the relationshipHuge mistake. Seems like you are creating your own problems. I don't know what type of advice could help you since you continue to shoot yourself in the foot.I didn't read the rest of your text btw.
>>34381925keep in mind if push comes to shove i think i'd prefer being with the new girl
>>34381940Of course you do. You're acting like a teenager instead of acting like a man.You're allowing your penis to rule over your head.This is just sexual lust. It has nothing to do with love and has nothing to do with your relationship.If you knew the difference, you wouldn't have made this thread.
>>34381882>met some other younger girl online, fell in love with her too>I feel like I'm addicted to her.Retard. Your addiction will pass fast and then you'll be back to square 1, only instead of your current wife it'll be this new girl, and you won't care how pretty she is because you'll get used to her. You'll gain nothing and you'll wreck your wife's life. Hold the line.>>34381925>>34381945This.
Basically OP you're not addicted to the girl you're addicted to dopamine you get when you interact with her. Dopamine is heavily dependent on novelty of stimulus. So when you get together with the new girl, the novelty will wear off and you'll view her same as your current wife. So again, you wreck the life of someone you love for nothing.
>>34381882>we recently agreed to open up the relationship in terms of sexSorry to tell you dude, you fucked up your own marriage there. >fell in love with herI'm gonna be honest with you. Divorce. Marriage isn't your cup of tea.
I don't think I've ever heard a single story where an open relationship actually worked out. They're almost always coming from a place of "I want to fuck other people but you have to be loyal to me." Which breeds resentment when it isn't what happens or one partner is significantly more successful than the other. >she's prettier than my wifeWon't last and is this flavor of the month really worth getting divorce raped and never seeing your kid?
>>34381882Listen up, OP.I am currently living the dream and you can too. Don't listen to these faggots, you deserve access to all 6 holes.I am 44m with a 35f wife. We have 3 kids. I also have a beautiful 22f girlfriend. And my wife knows. But you gotta keep th separate. I thought about the two wives thing too but the women need their own space. Then you, the rooster, travels between the henhouses. I pay half my girlfriends rent and she literally drains my balls everytime I go visit, she is so appreciative.Her pussy is so incredibly tight. It's an innie and i have to prep her or i will not fit. My wife's pussy is big and meaty and easy to get into. I love the contrasting variety.So go for it. Live your dream. Be the alpha male.
>>34381882God fucking damn I would've given my entire nut sack just to smell Jessica Albla's asshole back in the 2000s and fuck I would do the same even today.
>>34381882>she gets to see femdomsUh sorry to say this dude, but she’s inevitably gonna get railed by a real meat rod attached to some guy who calls himself “The Master” and has a collection of harnesses and whips imported from Germany. If she’s not already turning her womb into an X rated bounce house while she’s carrying your progeny. When you give women an inch they’ll take a mile (of cock), it’s honestly pretty stupid if you to think she’d stick to just seeing dominatrices and doing BDSM stuff without it eventually escalating. I do believe a very small percentage of people can make poly marriages work, but after getting to know them they’re all a bunch of smelly autistic weirdos and if you can pull actually hot pussy and a wife that’s not for you. If by some minute chance this isn’t a whole cloth LARP, you need to undo this agreement. He who tries to keep two women will eventually lose both.
34381945I actually find my wife much more sexually appealing. I just love being around the newer girl. She's so cute and happy and fun and pretty. I can't get enough. My heart races just thinking about her.34381964Maybe. Doubtful. 34381978Why would I divorce? I love my wife, and soon I get to fuck other girls. I'd just rather have this new girl as a girlfriend rather than to just fuck around with girls I don't care about.34382007I think I might do this. I think they'd like each other, but trying to get them to be in the same house might be difficult. My wife is 27 (I'm 38), and this new girl is 21. My wife has big tits and a huge ass, southern white girl body type I guess, but new girl is anorexic so very slim/tiny. I think I'd enjoy the contrast.34381991>divorce rapedI inherited my house, which can't be touched in a divorce. Them's the law in Quebec. Courts would likely favor me having the kid, since I own the home and my schedule is more flexible than my wife's.34382051>Uh sorry to say this dude, but she’s inevitably gonna get railed by a real meat rod attached to some guy who calls himself “The Master” and has a collection of harnesses and whips imported from GermanyNot reading the rest of your cuck fantasy but if my wife can't respect boundaries then I'd just divorce her and have the new girl move in.I think a lot of you have the wrong idea. I'm not looking for advice on whether or not I SHOULD try to do this. I 100% will, so don't waste your time. I want advice on HOW. I have one life, and I always go "full send" these days. If things end up in a disaster, then fuck it I LIVED.4chan spam filter thinks is is spam because I quoted too many people.
>>34382017her kids are so ugly. HOW? Did the wrong hapa genes go through
>>34381882Encourage your wife to have one of her outside adventures. Once she's done it she will be open to you taking your turn.
>>34382364That's what I'm currently doing. We messaged one of these femdoms. Hopefully it goes well.Kinda looking forward to watching her do that stuff, even though I'm not into it.
>>34381882>fell in love with her too>I think I love the new girl moreYou don't love her, you're just horny you fucking dumbassAre you 16 years old or what? For fucks sakeIf you want to find a way to bring this girl into your sexual lives that's fine, but don't go about saying "I love her" and trying to bring her into your home>She's low key mentally illMy god, you are retarded
>>34381925>You don't know what this means.lmaoYeah, OP, try jacking off. I'd even respect you more if you cheated (without getting caught or diseased).I can't respect a man who let's his girl do with with other people. Just wtf.
>>34382518>>34382513I didn't ask for advice on whether I SHOULD. I want tips on how to do it.
>>34382007You know OP can't do that. He's talking about falling in love and shit, so he obviously doesn't have the constitution for such a venture. He's also talking about forsaking his child. Exactly the kind of loser that doesn't deserve the arrangement.>>34382529This kind of knowledge is not for the profane.
>>34382007Do you live in Asia? Seems like anything is possible in China.
>>34382626Forsaking my child? You realize that if my wife leaves, I'm way more likely to more custody than her.
As someone that has been in this type of situation and relationship I will just say that it can be difficult if everyone is not 10000% secure, stable, understands the situation fully, and is emotionally mature enough for it. Also need very clear and open communication and honesty all around. Can be a lot of fun if you do, not so much if you don’t
>>34382797>I'm way more likely to more custody than her.Lmao yeah good luck. The family court will surely take the side of an adulterous male pervert than the wife who will have the badge of victim. And who could blame the courts? Would you trust a baby with a man who opens up his home to communicable diseases with the sheer amount of random sluts he brings home?
>>34382919Damn how boring and ignorantly judgmental are you?Do you want to talk to my manager?
>>34382007I feel so bad for your kids.
>>34382944I feel bad for the people that are around you
>>34382944Don't worry he doesn't have kids, doesn't have a wife either or a side bitch. He's one of those sad losers who get off on inventing fake incendiary stories for rage bait, and then he plays with the angry reactions because it's the closest thing he has for human interaction.
>>34382989It’s only rage bait for boring people that can’t get any so they don’t think anyone else canIt’s an advice board not a “get unwanted judgement from the most boring and bitter lonely people ever” board
>>34381882Open relationships are for sex, not love. Does the girl you love know you want to cheat on your pregnant wife with her? If she does, she isn't actually so lovely. If she doesn't and you hide it, why do you? Because deep down you know you are an asswhole.I feel sorry for your wife. She should divorce you. You aren't loyal to her. And you don't actually love her if you trade a serious relationship with the woman who carries your baby for a superficial relationship with some stupid crush.I feel even more sorry for the baby. You are not mature enough to have children.I really hope this is larp.
>>34382007You don't have a gf, you waste your kids' money on renting a cheap whore who doesn't give a fuck about you, stupid asswhole. And your wife is even more stupid for not divorcing the piece of shit you are. If your kids find out, they would hate you. I hope they do, and you lose them. You are setting the shittiest example for them. Shame on you.
>>34383002>It’s only rage bait for boring people that can’t get any so they don’t think anyone else can>Can't get anyI hope to God you are trolling because it would be embarrassing if you are a perpetual teenager in the body of a man. If you are past the age of 18 and you still treat sex as an integral part of your personality it means you either never grew up or you have the personality of drywall. "Can't get anyway" nigga I got my dick wet when I was 15 and stopped caring about chasing skirt by the time I was 18. Grow the fuck up
>>34383185Oh wow this person still being a bitch
>>34381882When you get an opportunity to fuck, take it. Doesn't matter what your age is or where you are or whether you're in a relationship or not, as long as the other person is clean, have sex with them. I'm so fucking blackpilled dude. I'm going to fuck as many girls as I can.
Man gambles all in a stupid double or nothing bet and loses everything ( you will lose everything )
Swear to God you are lying and this is a joke or you are just a retard
OP over here triggering all the people that can’t even imagine what sex is like with more than one person in their life kek
Open relationships are a pipeline to breaking the relationship with bullshit dramaAlso you're not in love you're just infatuatedGood luck fucking up your life OP
