There's a girl who likes me that's maybe a 5 or 6 based off instinct but looking at her face objectively her bone structure is much better than that. Normally I wouldn't go out with a 5, but should I go out with her and see if she glows up more or what? She's not fat but she's not lean, I'm kind of in the same boat for physique but it doesn't go to my face, I think that's probably why she's not as good looking as her bones would imply. What should I do?
It doesn't even sound like you like her. Obviously not.
>>34382299She's like the two-face girl from Seinfeld. That's why I rate her a 5, she looks good half the time and ugly half the time. So I'm very confused.>inb4 everyone doesNo, she does more than other people.
there's no such thing as objective beauty. everyone, if in good physical shape, will be attractive to someone. to have a successful marriage, you must be attracted to your spouse in a primal way. just answer the question: when you see her, does it make you want to jump in bed and make babies ? if no, move on.
>>34382291Do questions of personality, intelligence, compatibility, and anything other than looks play any role in your judgment?
>>34382343>personality, intelligence, compatibilityIsn't that what dating is for? To figure out those things? Yeah obviously I care about them. I also care about looks. Is that bad?
>>34382332I don't really know. Yes and no.
>>34382353Nta but no it's not bad. It's normal to care about looks, it's only abnormal to only care about that and nothing else. But you seem to have a sensible mind in your skull, you know you don't know someone's personality until getting to know them first. You are OK.
