i think i am an average girl i think i am pretty but i am just saying this so you can just imagine me a normal girl. i have a lot of friends irl but i hate 'normies' that word does make me cringe but thats all i can describe them as . i posted on 4chan a bit ago trying to find a bf and i got so many friend requests that my discord acc got termed, but every single one of these 'nice guys' that complain nobody fucking wants them, theyre all fucking hypocrites !!!!!! i talk to them and i send them nudes when they ask and they just ignore me and it hurts so much i wanna feel loved and i know its so retarded of me to come on 4chan to vent but really idk what to do i think im a lost cause,,, i am very mentally ill so i can see why these men dont want to stick around but i try my hardest to be nice and sweet and obedient ig if that would be the word . i was talking to a self proclaimed 28 y/o incel for over a month, and he was constantly complaining that women never gave him a chance and how hes never had a gf, and i really liked him and i told him id be his gf and he started ignoring me and he hasnt even bothered blocking me so i know he gets my texts. the only 2 irl bfs ive ever had were evil to me and both relationships ended with me getting cheated on, and i really really do think its over for me. i think i am a very smart and capable girl but its so hard going day by day so lonely with the constant reminder that im unlovable and useless. i would never ever commit suicide but i like to imagine the thought of a world with one less desperate foid in it
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>>34383359So what kind of advice do you need?
>>34383359Meeeee date me instead I wanna love you TT
>>34383506advice on how to communicate with guys better please or just to people in general bc something i am doing is not working :P
>>34383517maybe if you have discord
>>34383551You said this:>and i send them nudes when they askThe first problem is obviously sending a random person on the internet your nudes. Although this depends on how much you talked beforehand, even if it doesn't make it any better.Imo if a girl just sent me her nudes because I asked her, I would think that 1. she's a whore 2. She's a retard There's also 3. She's a catfisher (This is if she sends it unprompted (and I don't know her IRL)).Again, this depends on how much you talked to them before doing it, but you don't strike me as the type of person to talk to them beforehand to know them better. The sentence also strikes me like there were a few guys who the first thing that they messaged you was to "SEND TITS," and you did that like a fucking retard.>and they just ignore meThis could be for a few things. First, they just wanted to see your body for a quick nut. Second, they simply found you unattractive and decided to ghost you after this, which is an asshole move, but it could've happened. Or third, they talked to you until you sent them your nudes and then fucked off, and the whole point of them talking to (you) was for those nudes.cont (1/2)
>>34383649Also you said that > i try my hardest to be (...) obedientMaybe try to be more outgoing with your opinions?While there are obviously guys that like yes-(wo)men, you shouldn't do that, and you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone like that. You should express your own opinions and wants.You said that you were very mentally ill. What do you mean by that? This could also be involved with you being ignored, maybe you were fucking annoying (that may or may not be the fault of your mental illness), or they didn't want to deal with all that bs most mentally ill people bring.You also probably should get a therapist.This came like me explaining to you why people did shit to you, but desu, from what you posted, it sounds to me that you simply met asshole people and some mentally unwell people, and none of it (which I somewhat doubt) is your fault. So keep a positive attitude or something lol.Also, take this with a HUGE grain of salt because I'm a virgin retard (in the sense im an idiot, not an actual retard), and you should talk these problems with a therapist, family, or close friends.(2/2)
>>34383555Do you live in north america?
>>34383555>>34383661It's a fucking glowie don't let him groom you
>>34383677>It's a fucking glowie don't let him groom youlol i am a 21 year old manthis thread is a larp anyways but send me an email on Z1wf6DjFNP@proton.me i will reply with discord
>>34383679DON'T DO IT
>>34383677whats a glowie?
>>34383737Nothing don't worry about it>>34383359If not larp, don't be obedient and don't send nudes right away. Those are 2 big mistakes. I'll explain why if you want.
>>34383737An alphabet agent. Be careful out there.
>>34383911Glowies are on our side. We want our countries to be good, glowies want the same thing.
>>34383944Careful. You might blow your cover.
>>34383359>and i send them nudes when they askThis should be a deal breaker, they're telling you what they want, and it isn't to be your bf it is to see you naked.
>>34384044This is wrong. I ask the girl i want to be my gf for nudes. She not sending me any makes me want her more. Because not slutty.
>>34383997>Be a good goy
Es un caso curioso, también tengo el mismo problema, cuando conozco personas por internet, al inicio es genial, pero luego desaparecen. Bueno, si quieres alguien con quién pasar el rato hablando, contáctame.
>>34383359>not even chuds want me>the 2 irls bfs ive hadwomen everyone
They are trans everyoneMystery solved
>>34383359I FUCKING LOVE ALICE!
>>34383359this is the average "lonely femcel" btw
Lady, I think you need to start seeing the human side in men more often. You need to stop wanting the perfect guy and know the guy you are with that you have to settle with is good enough. I'm not saying go drink sewage water if you are dying of thirst, I'm saying stop giving up on tap water when you can't get fiji spring water.
>>34389450nah I know femcels. Common threads>hypocritical and judgmental, bad at hiding it>self hatred>insecurities>dont wanna work on self>not feminine at all>hurt everyone around them
>>34383359man up and ask him out
you only need to not be a landwhale and have a low body count, preferably of 0 to be desirable.
>>34383649>Although this depends on how much you talked beforehandSending nudes is a redflag regardless of how long you've known the person. Such a disgusting behaviour even if she was my gf I'd be extremely disappointed.
>>34383359Let's go over the problem:>I think i am an average girl>I hate 'normies' >I send randos on the internet nudes when they ask and they just ignore me>I wanna feel loved>I am very mentally ill >I feel I'm unlovable and uselessHere's my advice:I'd isolate what the love you want actually is. Attention? Kindness? Sexual desire? If you don't really know what you want it's hard to feel any which way. Some sociologists call this a love language. Find what you value in a relationship then create situations that foster it.I'd suggest not sharing nudes and starting a whole lot smaller with a friendship before you try to make a relationship. It's called having a "boy-friend" for a reason. Try to focus more on cultivating men like flowers, first you have to sew the seeds of a relationship, find out what they enjoy and try it out to see if you like doing what they like. As an example, if you like anime find someone else who will watch anime with you. Then you have to water the seed frequently, say your love language is words of affirmation. Try telling the person you want to love you that you had a lot of fun watching anime together and you'd like to do it again when they have the time. Keep in mind everyone has different interests and timeframes (some flowers need more water than others) and it takes time and effort to get a plant to properly bloom. So don't give up and make some friends.
>>34383359kek you def browsed 4chan too much. you sound like a cute girlfrom your text, you only messaged with random people you didnt even know nor did they know you inrl... ofc such things are just fantasy and nothing serious... you are literally just chatting ... just focus to find a partner in real life instead of discord >>34386655kek this a bit
>>34383359>>34383359The /pol/ chuds here aren't going to be honest to you (they have a combination of self-loathing + distorted worldview). I will be honest with you, but sit down, this will be painful. This isn't intended as a personal attack, it is just honest feedback on the situation which happens to be negative.1) I do not think you have an accurate self-assessment of yourself. If desperate guys don't want you, then you may not be "average" in looks, but potentially ugly. I don't say this to be mean, I used to think I was average but realised a lot of people avoided me, so one has to deduce they are ugly (if they avoid you before you say anything).2) You said "i am very mentally ill". This is a huge social turn-off for a *lot* of people. Even if we assume you are average in looks, being "very mentally ill" means you come with extra emotional burdens that other people, especially emotionally unstable and self-loathing chud incels, do not want to have to deal with. Mental illness is like ugliness but for intelligence or psychology. There's a reason society labels it an ILLNESS and not 'wow cool feature'. 3) "i send them nudes when they ask". Stop doing that, you're at high risk of being blackmailed or extorted. I suspect the 'mental illness' you refer to is impairing your judgement capabilities.Part 1/2
>>34383359Part 2/2Now that's out of the way, your friends and your date are not your therapist nor psychiatrist. They are not there to deal with your emotional baggage or mental illness. If you have trauma issues, find a therapist. If you have psychological issues, find either a psychologist or a psychiatrist. Work on yourself, deal with your own personal issues first. Me personally? I just deal with the consequences of being isolated due to mental illness rather than take drugs, but you might have a different equation.Also your post title is a lie and you should feel bad about:>not even chuds want me>the only 2 irl bfs ive ever had were evil to me and both relationships ended with me getting cheated onIf nobody wanted you, you wouldn't even have "irl bfs".Also, another reality check, blind fire really: if you're a fucking tranny trying to larp as a woman, *people can tell you're not a woman*. There are entire physical and physiological traits that you will never be able to change that alert people. In-fact, on weight of probability, a normal woman is more likely to be classified as a man ('butch' or 'block jawed' or 'has a moustache' [see German women]), than a man will pass the sniff test on pretending to be a woman.
