> mom says not to get married in your 20s> spend 20s only trying to get hookups> get no hookups past age of 25> in 30s now> never got married in my 20s> no job> no car> no financial assistance from family> no wife and kids> should have gone for it in my 20s> my little brother was the black sheep of the family> he killed himself in our 20s> little sister has not talked to me since this happened> the cousins that I actually care about won't talk to me> family has made me the black sheep to fill in the void my brother left
what would you like advice about sir frog?
>>34385630How to move forward in life. Just, how to make my life better. I know that's vague but I have a lot of different problems.
>>34385630To narrow it down a bit from >>34385642I live in a house for people with mental illness. They take more than half of your income (which for me is social security). I want a job to support a family, and to have a wife I love and loves me back. I can barely save up for a car right now. Neither of my parents will let me live with them.
>>34385542>listening to one single parent's advice as gospel & living by it for decadesman..
>>34385642well, is there anything you want?i wouldn't give up on getting married if that's what you want, but try to figure out some other stuff about your life first>>34385710well try and get a job if you cani hope they don't immediately kick you out if you look for a job, it would be better if you can work & save some money before moving outbut yeah it will be worth it anon
>>34385759Thanks.I live near a city that has a lot of competition for tech jobs, because there are tech schools in that city that have prestigious names for their computing related degrees. I got a BS in computer science but it wasn't from one of the schools that are known to have valuable degrees.
