I had this dream where I felt the most blissful form of unity with this girl I used to see often but never talked to besides one small bad interaction. I'm convinced she's my soulmate but the problem is that I'm an unfuckable rizzless incel and she's in a LTR with some normie.I'm fine with being alone (at least for now) but I have many questions about soulmates and I'm also seeking for advice on how to proceed:>Does a soulmate necessarily mean a romantic relationship?>Should I let her know she's my soulmate?>Should I even bother entertaining other romantic interests? I feel like it would be a silent betrayal as I could never love them the way I love her but I could be wrong and maybe she's not my soulmate, I was told by a fortune teller long ago that my partner would be someone that I'd never expect which makes me want to give up entirely because "how could I possibly know?">If we really are soulmates then are we destined to end up together no matter what? Is it possible to lose your soulmate through freewill or chance?>What are the consequences in denying your fate if any?I'm 100% serious, I know it's a lot so I thank you in advance for any replies. I posted this on /x/ but I also wanted to get a more "practical" perspective.
No you stupid fuck, dreams are not 'signs' to do shit, maybe more like for you to instrospectI don't want to get into the soulmates stuff because I'm guessing x already told you you're a dumbass. I had a retarded coworker like you get depressed because he thought our new female coworker was his soulmate too. Guess what happened? He scared her off confessing and being mental about it. Don't impose on other people your delusions
>>34385825Tell me more about your male coworker, please.
>>34385798>Does a soulmate necessarily mean a romantic relationship?Yes, but you are putting the cart before the horse.>Should I let her know she's my soulmate?No, random people telling others they are their soulmate is a recipe for disaster>Should I even bother entertaining other romantic interests? I feel like it would be a silent betrayal as I could never love them the way I love her but I could be wrong and maybe she's not my soulmate, I was told by a fortune teller long ago that my partner would be someone that I'd never expect which makes me want to give up entirely because "how could I possibly know?"No but for reasons different then your own. >If we really are soulmates then are we destined to end up together no matter what?You very clearly aren't soulmates.>Is it possible to lose your soulmate through freewill or chance? Yes it is.>What are the consequences in denying your fate if any?My brother in Christ. The only fate you are about to have if you continue this delusion is an TRO.
>>34385798>I'm convinced she's my soulmate but the problem is that I'm an unfuckable rizzless incel and she's in a LTR with some normie.god you're retardedfucking reach out to her
>>34385798>never talked toyou don't know anything about this woman and there is no way the reality of her personality will match your fantastic dream versions of her
>>34385999>No, random people telling others they are their soulmate is a recipe for disasterThat sounds right, seems so obvious now.>No but for reasons different then your own.based.I appreciate the overly-cautious take.>>34386507Sure. I eventually will.>>34386514>you don't know anything about this woman and there is no way the reality of her personality will match your fantastic dream versions of herI agree. The only thing we share is superficial interests like fitness, music, and reading but she seems spiritual but non-religious while I'm a Christian and she cares a lot about traveling and living a lavish style while I'm low maintenance. For these reasons and more I didn't pursue her even when she was interested in me since I saw no future with us being together until I had the God-given dream.
>>34385798>>34385798you should find out where she goes regularly from her web presence and propose marriage to her, what is there to lose
>>34385798Unless you actually dated her previously (ldr counts) then leave it be and see what happens
>>34385798>Am I obligated to pursue my soulmate?i would say yes, that's kind of what "soulmate" meansif she's actually your soulmateyou'll regret not pursuing love & if you're overthinking it's probably a mistake
>>34387114>Sure. I eventually will.do it as soon as possible, see what hapens
>>34385798Do it anon.When I was 15 I had a dream where I raped a beautiful wide hipped latina. She was with her back to a wall in an afternoon light, I didn't know her, just pulled down her leggings and put my dick in. She was moaning.Now that I'm 30 I still haven't encountered that girl's face on anybody I've known, and being a virgin still is the proof that's the person I'm destined to find.
>>34385798>SoulmateNo such thing.All relationships require an investment of some kind to work. Compatibility just lowers the threshold of how much you have to invest in that relationship for it to start and perpetuate.
>>34391033Soulmates are definitely real