tldr I am a guy in my 20s very emotional and reactive it gets worse when i feel insecure for wtv reason. My personality makes it impossible for me to connect with others. How can i change thisso for example i made 5 posts on here okay, and i didnt get a single reply back from anyone on different threads and the one person that replied said are you drunk i cant seem to be able to connect with anyone anymorefirst thing is probably the language barrier ig? english isnt my first language and i feel more disconnected than usualsecond of all im very emotional and i get like 3 different replies/responses in my head for one question or wtvthis kind of retarded phase (overthinking) happens when i dont socialize for too long 3 days or more ig i cant seem to be able to be normal nor make friends nor even get a single replyeven now i sound incoherent and inconsistent sorry ididnt know where to start
>>34386358your english is decent, anon, don't worryit's probably not an issue>i cant seem to be able to be normal nor make friends nor even get a single reply>even now i sound incoherent and inconsistent>sorry ididnt know where to startpeople online now are very impatient & mostly interested in slop garbageyou won't usually get much interaction anywaybut i don't think it's a problem with you or your personality, anon, it's just how things arei bet you'd have more success irl
ive stopped trying to connect with people for this reason it’s humiliating. how would u describe ur personality
>>34386377>your english is decent..thanks anon for being um a better person and not making fun of the shit i write>people online now are very impatient & mostly interested in slop garbageim unfortunately one of these people i value emotion and impulsivity more than rationality so i was going to curse u (for no reason beside getting a reaction from u and i apologize for that)>but i don't think it's a problem with you or your personality,im very awkward, not direct, people pleaser, unassertive and a liarsorry if i was out of line i wasnt gonna curse u cause i didnt want u to get mad and stop responding
>>34386390u shouldnt stop it gets better with time you have to be consistent af and u will see a changeim just so lazy that i cant bring myself to think about my future be better
>>34386390>how would u describe ur personalitysorry forgot to answer this golden question erratic, pathetic, needy, emotional, annoying ...and other stuff thats enough bad traits
I'm literally a mime in society. I just stare at people in public and have this problem where if I do talk to someone I end up offending them so I'm just quiet all the time. Everyone thinks I'm too young or too old and honestly I just want girls to give me attention. Most people don't care what I have to say and I have a hard time listening to others. It seems like everyone just wants me to do the wrong thing to seem right. What do I do?
>>34386822everything sounds like a chore to me, i need vitamin D and a good nights sleep
>>34386358Most posts don't get replies, anon. You're tending toward catastrophization.
>>34390977idk i just think the problem is in the way i interact with others
