Can anyone help me? Im going through such a hard breakup. I found her talking to a guy behind my back; she talks to him still all day but ignores me since i found out. I feel so lonely and alone i cannot bear the pain. i really thought we would get married , i had spent a year saving up for our vacation.
>>34386999
Sux, bro, use that money you saved up for an anime body pillow. Then you'd be less lonely. It will always be there for you, keeping you warm and comfy at night.
>>34386999Break up lad. You deserved better anyways. She was was for the streets
>>34386999What do you need help with? Pain? What exactly hurts you the most?
>>34386999>>34388091>Im going through such a hard breakup>Break up lad
>>34391476Well, it’s how lonely it is to sleep in bed without her there. Secondly, it just hurts so much that while I am in pain alone, she is having fun with her guy friend.. because we called a few days ago and even while we were calling, she was messaging him and laughing.
>>34392058Yeah that's normal. I've been there. I know how it hurts. The loneliness will of course go eventually, but will still hit hard from time to time. You'll have to live through it. I think it's the same thing as when you lose someone close to you due to death or whatever, it felt exactly like stopping a relationship. The dude being there adds jealousy I guess. But it's just a detail brain-wise.There's a hack that I haven't tried, it sounds corny but it's based off neurology. Basically shifting to gratitude activates prefrontal cortex and deactivates amygdala or whatever, and that helps you deal with pain faster, since neurons will shift to activate different parts of the brain that don't cause pain. So when it starts hurting, go "well at least I am glad we did X together", or "well at least I can now find a new partner that will be better", or any other gratitude cope. That way your brain will rewire faster. You don't have to force any ultragratitude, just make your brain shift to finding crap to be grateful for.
>>34392058sounds like typical women branch hopping. just take pleasure in the fact that it won't stop with the new guy. even if they got married she'll still be on her phone laughing with other men.
>>34386999>, i had spent a year saving up for our vacation.You're a homo
