>be me>19 yo with 34 year old mom and 38 year old dad>recently found out that my mom has been having an affair with another man for months>unsure if I should tell my dadShe's really in love with him apparently... I found out around a week ago and have just been sad and sleeping a lot since then. But the shock has worn off enough that I think maybe I should do something now...but what?
yo momma a whore, let him found out (help him discretly)
>>34388424Stay out of it
>>34388424Cheating is nothing. Almost the same shit as masturbating in the bathroom while being in a relationship.The valuable shit is the marriage, marriage is an institution of trust. Her hiding shit may destroy her marriage and she may not want that. Her horniness will pass when she hits 40 but her trust shouldn't.Best you can do is ask her whether she wants to keep the marriage with your dad, and if she does, she has to come out clean and tell by herself what's going on, what she feels, why she's doing it, what she expects the husband to feel. And pray that your dad isn't a jealous piece of shit.Either way, you can only be an advisor to both, you can't change who they are or what choices they will take. You're soon to be independent per social pressure yourself. You have a bright future and young parents, you have nothing to worry about for a long time.Watch the movie Boyhood. Maybe make both of them watch it as well.
>19Time to plan on moving out. You're at the age where it doesn't have to affect your life
>>34388424>recently found out that my mom has been having an affair with another man for monthsHow did you find this out? What did you witness?
>>34388444What the fuck is wrong with you people. What kind of person writes this shit?
>>34388444>Dad is a jealous piece of shit for not wanting his wife to cheat on himGaslight Girlboss
>>34388444>Cheating is nothing>Pray that your dad isn't a jealous piece of shit.>Count out clean>Tell him what she feels>Why she's doing it>And what she EXPECTS THE HUSBAND TO FEEL (Yes, she should gaslight him and tell him how he should feel according to her whims).>>34388424You already know about the affair. You're also a 19 year old adult. That means if you keep quiet on this, you become complicit in covering up for your cheating mom. If and when your dad finds out, he will also find out that (you) knew. That you knew and you said nothing. Tell me you're a cheater without telling me you're a cheater.
>>34388460Seriously. Cheating is fucking awful to do to someone and is wasting all the time you were pretending to love your wife/gf. Also that movie is for incel fags kek
>>34388424>19 yo with 34 year old momBait thread
>>34388460A cheater wrote it. You can see their bias baked into the "advice" where it frames the cheater as a misunderstood yet annoyingly demanding brat who expects no accountability or consequences for their actions. The big tell was>Don't be a jealous (piece of shit) [emotions are involuntary, the anon blames people for feelings they find inconvenient]>But the mom should explain why it's happening, and what's happening (her actions which were her choices, voluntary ones, those get excused or have room for understanding apparently lol)Cheaters are fucking psychotic
>>34388424Ask her for a blowie in exchange for keeping it a secret
I know it's bait but how else would you expect someone who got pregnant when they were 14 to act?
>>34388444Mutilate yourself
>>34388424I'm an oldfag. In my life I have seen many, many people told that their partner or spouse was cheating on them; and not once did any of them become any happier for finding out. In about 90% of cases they ended up really hating the person who told them. "Why did you have to tell me? Why couldn't you just leave it alone?" is a typical reaction. People don't want to be in pain. Usually they'd rather not know.
