A woman I "met" on Telegram is interested on me but:>weed lmao>lots of partners most likely>bpd? or just woman for that matters>different city / far away>fears the futureon the other hand>pretty>smart>might be my last bullet not to die alone (assuming)But I'm what you could call an incel, with just one sex experience (with a literal prostitute) and somewhat fear of intimacy She seems to be "ready to settle" (grim, I know) but seems sincere about it, if you know what I meanInsights?
You sound like a real catch
>>34388648Reality is what it is and nobody is perfect
A girl that smoked weed is a turnoff? 1st mistake.
>>34388676It's a concern due to the instability, anxiety and mental problems it potentially brings such practice
>>34388599>>might be my last bullet not to die alone (assuming)>>bpd? or just woman for that matters>She seems to be "ready to settle" (grim, I know)be line Neo and dodge these bulletsconsider pump and dumping
>>34388684Any drug can bring those underlying issues out. Singling out weed like that is retarded
>>34388684You don't have to marry her on the first date. Meet up and see what she's like.But don't listen to the loser potheads here. Weed is definitely a red flag, I'd say even more than some harder drugs.You don't want an unambitious slob that smells with you for the rest of your life.
>>34388745You're fucking delusional if you think weed is more of a redflag than coke or meth or shit like that. It's literally medicine for some, and does not destroy your body like that other shit. Most people that smoke weed are perfectly fine and contributing people to society. Read a book for once
>>34388784You are a coping drug addict. Go take your medicine.
>>34388805You're a retard who fell for the "weed is the devil" propaganda. I admit it's not the best for you and has its downsides but what doesn't? Smoke a blunt it might open your mind
>>34388745How do you meet with someone from far away without clearly stating it's a romantic date which might throw the vibes off? I feel like we could meet organically if we were closer but maybe it's the way it is and should just go with it somehow
>>34388866I did plenty of drugs, weed included. At least when I did them I did them purely for entertainment and didn't delude myself into thinking they're medicine.And more importantly I know now I could have been a better person and tried harder in life at those times. Drugs are a waste of time and poison for your soul. And weed especially, because people smoke it every day until they are incapable of achieving anything. It steals your vast potential.
>>34388890Well, you did say she seems interested, so there would be nothing wrong with a romantic date would there?But I kinda missed the "far away" part. Maybe just try to get to know here more a little bit and tell her you like her and ask if she would like to get to know each other in real life too.If you think you can not state your romantic intentions for a long while and get closer to her like that and then dump them out of the blue, then I'd say that that is a bad plan that rarely works.
