I'm white and my best friend is black, he only dates non-black women. He had this one white woman as a girlfriend for a while, let's call her Julie.I only somewhat knew Julie when she was his girlfriend, but she had obvious issues and liked to talk about their sex life at every opportunity.They broke up because he was working a full-time job and she wanted a monopoly on his time. She pulled a stunt for attention that backfired and he told her to leave.Seven years or so go by and she adds me on a dating website, she recognizes me before I recognize her.We start talking and she starts off by apologizing for how she acted before, tells me her whole life story, says she was diagnosed with some problem and had to go to therapy for years to work through it.We keep talking and actually have a lot in common, there was almost an instant click of us getting along which I've never had happen, she checks some boxes for what I'm looking for in a woman that most do not.Nonetheless I'm also still heavily leaning towards blocking her, how do I know the therapy story isn't a lie, and to be entirely honest she slept with my friend which means she realistically probably slept with other black guys.Is it petty to block her for these reasons? What would you do in this situation?
>>34388899>how do I know the therapy story isn't a lieHow do you know anything anyone has ever said to you in your life wasn't a lie? Sooner you just have to try trusting someone.>Is it petty to block her for these reasons? Unbelievably petty.>What would you do in this situation?I'd give her a chance.
>>34388899I wouldn't relationship her, because she slept with black guys, but I'd def use her for sex if you're not above itAnd there's no shame in blocking her if you feel like you can live with the fact that you skipped potential pussy (these opportunities don't come often)
>>34388899block her, because she is a friend's ex.
>>34388899I mean, if you just want to fuck her, no problem. But never date a bitch who dated black. Even if he's ur best friend. Just don't.
>>34388899You had my sympathy right up to the next-to-last sentence, where you expose that the only real reason for your problem is your racism.
>>34389130I guess I'm looking at it from a risk / reward viewpoint.There could be something here or it could just be a bunch of unnecessary drama.Is the potential for reward higher than potential risk, honestly not sure, really like talking to this lady but remember how she was years ago as well.Can somebody change that much in just a few years, my gut tells me no, she does seem very different but it could also just be an act.She is living with her mother, just lost her job, and just had her car repossessed, seems desperate for affection.>>34389719I thought of this angle but he is completely over her and has moved on, he's been with his current GF for years and I don't see that changing any time soon. I'll probably talk to him about it if I don't block her to see how he would feel about it.>>34389671>>34389741Juice wouldn't be worth the squeeze on this one, I have better prospects if I just wanted to get laid.>>34389803I know I'm not going to change your opinion not that I care, but I don't think that's it, I've dated black women, would have no issue had she only been with my friend. Not looking for sympathy, looking for advice, this is the advice board.
Don't stick your dick in crazy, also she's a coal burner. Who knows how many failed relationships she's ranked up by now
>>34388899>she wanted a monopoly on his time>pulled a stunt for attentionbig red flags. BPD behavior>had to go to therapy for yearsbig red flag.>almost an instant click of us getting along which I've never had happenSounds like you haven't dated many BPD women. They're extremely good at clicking with their prospective victims.>slept with other black guysmajor red flag, she has no self respect, and little self control.>Is it petty to block her for these reasons?Nope. She's got more red flags than communist party rally.
>>34390891>seems desperate for affectionYou should also consider that she needs a wallet to help support her and her diverse collection of bastards in the lifestyle to which she would like to become accustomed.
>>34388899She has more red flags than the confederation army. Run anon.
Amerisissie problems>>34389803Back to 'eddit, monkeylover.
