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I stopped drinking and took up smoking, but now I question if this is actually healthier for me or not.

I'm just at a very low spot in my life emotionally and don't have a support network that can help me through it so I find myself choosing one of these as a temporary solution.

Thoughts? No, I'm not going to be totally sober or at least not until I get into a relationship (assuming she wants that from me)

I'm not an angry drunk or stoner
I'm not irresponsible like a booze crusier or a high rider.
I just get really sad. Im alone and I want to decompress in the evening when there are no responsibilities.
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>>34390162
your a weak pathetic man

I haven't spoken to anyone besides my mom on the phone and my manager at work via zoom for 4 months

get your ass to the gym loser
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>>34390162
alcohol is pretty fucking bad, probably worse than weed
weed in the long run will fuck you up too, though
>Thoughts? No, I'm not going to be totally sober or at least not until I get into a relationship (assuming she wants that from me)
you've already given up?
>I just get really sad. Im alone and I want to decompress in the evening when there are no responsibilities.
u should find things to do besides substances, have some self-respect
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find things to do in order to make your life good/bearable, is what i mean
not JUST because of self-respect

you'll be alright
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>>34390435
You're

I workout intensively, as well as partake in physically engaging hobbies like climbing and motorcycle riding.
>>34390441
>find things to do
I actually do too much and over exert my body. I partake as a means to reset, a cooldown in gamer terms.
>Given up
I don't know to be honest. Part of me wants to be honest and say yeah but another part of me believes I'm only like this because I am just not in an enviornment that rewards sobriety. I am carrying a lot of weight, my internal engine RPMs run high for extended periods of time. Sometimes I just need to lower my RPM and a helpful solution has been a good night cap before bed.
>>34390445
I think I need to do activities that are fulfilling AND relaxing. Maybe a bathhouse or sauna?
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>>34390162
If I remember correctly Lincoln himself basically had no vices
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>>34390984
Also, the quote doesn't sound like something he would say
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>>34390509
You don’t have a bike.
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I have noticed a positive change in my mental and physical health when I substitute alcohol for weed. I am/was a heavy user of both but not at the same time, just either or. There is no way I would go to the gym every other day or meditate and try to be more mindful of my thoughts and feelings while ravaging my liver with alcohol, for example.
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>>34391120
I have 3 kek all sport bikes try again
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>>34391468
With that said it is not for everyone, I am lucky in that I have no mental illness or history of them in the family, aside from being a mild sperg.
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>>34390162
Personal opinion? Booze is without a doubt worse.
I can't give myself an ulcer with weed.
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Alcohol no question. You can smoke weed for decades, be a stoner burnout, and then quit and be a normal person. Alcohol will cumulatively damage you the whole time you do it and change you permanently
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>>34390162
Both are bad for you in their own ways
Smoking weed would be worse in terms of the route of administration(since we all know smoking is le bad for lungs)
Yet for total impairment alcohol would be worse.
I've known acquaintances/neighbors who developed schizophrenia as a result of weed. Especially since its legal in my country(yes im a leaflaggot)
Alcohol's wide acceptance would make it worse.
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>>34390162
neither are healthy, are you retarded? if you want a vice, just choose caffeine. its the least destructive.
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>>34391759
Healthi-er =/= healthy
>>34391533
Don't have a family history of schizophrenia so that doesn't apply to me.
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>>34390162
depends on how much you drink, how you do on weed, and how cheap you can find what you like
some drinking(not a bender) once a week or during holidays is fine anything more than that is usually bad news that can sneak up on you
if you can function on weed you can smoke as much as you please but if it fucks you up too much to enjoy anything else you're wasting your time and money
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>>34391837
It doesn't matter whether or not you have a history.
>>34391759
Even caffeine can have health effects like anxiety, constipation & insomnia , rare cases involve psychosis. Not to mention it is a diuretic.
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>>34390162
the thing that makes weed bad is not the weed, it's what you do on it. if you smoke weed, clean your apartment, take care of errands, go to the gym, etc, then weed is not a problem. if you smoke weed, sit on the couch, eat doritos, and goon for 3 hours, then weed is bad for you.
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>>34391884
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that only happens to very young people who smoke extremely strong weed. Not adults with mild stuff.
>>34391870
Good post, thank you.
I would say a couple beers before bed / a small grinders worth of bowls. I can function but I get a sense of contentment which I feel like could be a double edged sword.
>>34391947
I do not drive when intoxicated. I clean and do house work / work on cars/bikes but won't venture out when smoked.

I would like to gently remind you all that the key bit of context is me settling down at the end of the day. I do not wake and bake, I try not to smoke in the afternoons just incase responsibilities or opportunities come knocking.

I think I'm leaning to the weed just from what has been said here, but I don't want it to be a confirmation bias.
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>>34391471
Gay
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>>34392073
Bread on bike if you wanna talk shit



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