I've been seeing a girl almost every week for the past 2 months and we're mostly having a great time. She's pretty hot, kind, and willing to listen to my autistic rambling while appearing interested.The only thing I fear is that she doesn't seem to be _that_ intelligent, not saying she's dumb as rocks but I can feel she's generally slower etc.. It's not an issue right now per se but I'm wondering how I'd feel after a few years of that ?What do ? Any anon with a similar experience?
>>34391174Define "dumb"Doesn't know a lot about what you know a lot about? That's "uneducated," not "stupid."Slow-thinking? That could be "thoughtful and not impulsive"Not inclined to philosophise? Prone to doing unwise things without considering the dangers? What is "dumb" to you?
I actually prefer women like that. Women who are smart I feel, can be a bit too perfect.
>>34391174Why would you need a woman to be smart?
>>34391204Slower to catch things, needs more time and explanations in order to understand some things, appears to agree to some stuff she doesn't understand etc..As I said, it's not a bad thing per se because she still seems curious about things and eager to listen, I'm just wondering how that would hold up in the long run
>>34391174Sounds like a good deal to me stillWhat kinda stuff do you talk about?
>>34391804you seem to never have had a gf before lolgirls arent your bros and they arent there to make intellectual discussions with. you can do it, but you should never expect them to be logical men like are you dumb?
>>34391964you are very wrong, but whatever. very tatesque thinking you have.
Intelligence is almost a completely neutral thing for women. Intelligence can make a good girl even better and a bad girl capable of destroying your life far more effectively. I wouldn't worry about it too much. The best girls are average intelligence but *think* they are below average intelligence. Not easy to find though as most of this type of woman get married quickly because they are typically ideal wives.
>>34391949>>>34391174 (OP)>Sounds like a good deal to me still>What kinda stuff do you talk about?Heh varies but I'd say for the most part mundane stuff, our daily life, some stuff we're interested in, some more personnal stuff. Tbh it's been great talking to her as she's a good listener and actually makes an effort to keep the conversation going.>>34391964I mean if you only want a girl to fuck and show off then you do you, but I want the person I'm sharing some parts of my life to be more than a glorified hole and to be someone I actually want to be around >>34391972Heh I get your point, I know that for me, a large part of attraction to someone comes from actually being interested in what they have to say/think (on top of looks etc), so having a bimbo-esque figure would be just as much of a pain as an interesting hag. She might actually fall in that category though
>>34391971women arent logical its fact... if you want 'data' just look at chess pros
>>34392010>I mean if you only want a girl to fuck and show off then you do you, but I want the person I'm sharing some parts of my life to be more than a glorified hole and to be someone I actually want to be aroundso basically im right and you are an incel who never had a gf... how do i know? bc i never said anything to the extend you say it here, gross exaggerrations are made by people who are intimidated from the truth, you are an incelgirls arent men deal with it
>>34391971im not like tate at all, the thing why the redpill or tate stuff is appealing is bc theres some truth to it and many young guys like op dont get women... and when the redpill or guys like tate explain things from a completely different viewpoint many guys are like 'oh wow so thats why girls are so ... retarded or whatever'the thing is you dont have to go to the extreme as tate and act or the op here >I mean if you only want a girl to fuck and show off then you do you, but I want the person I'm sharing some parts of my life to be more than a glorified hole and to be someone I actually want to be aroundsee this is the op and tate, but not what i said at alli can claim women arent men and are much less logical without claiming women are just holes and to be used for them, i can appreciate the female nature without going full tate redpill and without acting like im a woke retard and women are men people just arent realistic anymore .t actual high IQ
yeah, chicks are like thatbut there's a limit to it. if you're saying "damn, this bitch is dumb" multiple times a day - you're going to have issues
>>34391174Dumb is good. Easy to manipulate, won't succed if she turns against you.Dumb is actually a lot safer. I am talking to this smart girl, i know how dangerous that is.
>>34392041You have to hate women, but only a little bit. Worship of women and visceral hatred are both gay.
>>34391174If she's kind, laughs at your jokes (and vice versa), trustworthy and cute then that is someone worth dating. Unless she's mentally retarded I wouldn't worry about it.
>>34392230ive literally not wrote a single sentence about hating women, you are literally just accusing me of random shit bc your brain is so tiny it just puts people it doesnt get into stereotypes
>>34392230ive even wrote how i appreciate the female nature, which i do lol. just bc i realise they arent logical like men doesnt equal im a woman hating tate fan, so dumb lol
>>34391174Put a ring on her finger and seal the deal. She's into you, that's what matters. Now gtfo this thread and go live your life. You made it.
>>34392330>OP is in a 2 month-long relationship with a girl he’s calling dumb>”you made it”bro
>>34392278>>34392273Massive homo detected
>Thread where the discussion is, more or less, about intelect itself.>Most takes are braindeadGonna be honest anon, I don't know either of you, not you or that woman.But personally I'd recommend you find a way (that's adequate for your relationship) of testing the ability that both have of handling or discussing sensitive topics.One can be a complete retard while the other might approach super AI levels of intelect but as long as both of you are able to maintain a civil discussion most times then you are good, don't get me wrong if she is legit a midwit then that's not going away and you are the best one to decide if you will ever become tolerant and accostumed of said slowness.But so long as both of you are willing to recognize when you are wrong and as long as you are able to speak about it without shitting all over the other party then I'd say a future is possible.
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