I also wanna add that ChatGPT tells me to make my own income and people irl told me not to get with her because I'd be enslaved by her family because I'd be dependent on their money and I'd have to do everything they want. Which honestly as far as I know is only marriage and giving her children.
Yes, I'm basically made to be a neet.

>>34391482
That's a problem. You're basically at her mercy. Idk what kind of relationship you have. Are you ok with being at her mercy and if things go south you'll likely end up stuck with a dead end job in Switzerland at best? If yes risk it, sounds okay, but it's maybe her way of getting back at her parents, or some other stupid thing, I dunno. Ask her parents if you can.

My dude think less with your dick and more with your reasoning.
Finish your education so you have something solid you can come back to no matter what - ask her to come visit YOU if she is really that rich.
She shouldn't encourage you to drop everything and become entirely dependent on her in a country you have absolutely Zero connections and probably don't even speak the language in.
Are you hot? at least somewhat believable why she want you so bad.
You anything but hot? I'd worry for my liver.
No shade but why does she need you to give her babies? I mean it doesn't add up that you are apparently so important to wait for years, (almost never visit), but give her babies so you can neet with her.
Besides trust me bro - as a father you do anything BUT neet. Get yourself a screaming bird for a month and then imagine that for the next 18 years (the baby screams turn into children screams and someday into attitude).

>>34391454
Are you sure when you get there, you won't get jumped by her pimps and get your organs harvested?

>>34391495
Yeah that's why I'm trying to buy a plane ticket to like meet the rest of the family to feel out the situation. But I'm fucking broke, I asked her to send me money if she really wants me to come, but she refused, she'll probably only do it if I agree to her deal. And yes, her parents did always pressure her to get married fast.
She also said it's too late for me, so she might have found some other chump to go with her deal or something idk. But she still asks when I'll visit her, so it's kind of open.
My relationship to her? We text each other frequently, like every second week or so I text her just to check in, but it's very shallow, like how are you, what are you doing, when are you coming to visit me... Sometimes we video chat, but it's super shallow, nothing deep. Our relationship is mainly built on physical attraction lmao. But for some reason I feel like we still deeply understand each other, like we share a lot of the same worldviews. I met almost no other woman like who makes me feel that way, as of now.

The second time I did meet her we fought like half of the time but that is mostly the cultural and language barrier to blame for.

I'm not sure if I'm okay with being at her mercy, but she does want the best for me, so probably yes. I wouldn't be okay with going back to work a shit job in Switzerland if things go south though.
Fuck.what a fucking dilemma.

>>34391507
I already asked her to come visit me but she said she needs to buy a visa and wants me to make the first move anyway.
Yes, I'm hot, and I'm like her looksmatch.
Also the second time I met her WAS in Thailand, I've been chilling with her for 2 weeks. She only wanted my heart, not my liver >>34391540
She wants my babies because of my genes and mostly because her family is pressuring her to bring an heir to their clan.
>I mean it doesn't add up that you are apparently so important to wait for years, (almost never visit), but give her babies so you can neet with her.
Why does it not add up? I agree she should have visited me too with all the money she has, but I don't agree with the rest. She is waiting precisely to have kids with me.
How does having kids want me to not neet? Like, just walk out the house of the screaming bothers you?

>>34391454
Lmfao that thai bitch smelled your pathetic soul from thousands of km's away and she will save her entire bloodline with your swiss passport

>>34391660
Yeah, that's also what I suspected, she just wants the Swiss passport. But she comes from money, why would she need to "save" her bloodline like that? Makes no sense

>>34391454
1. That sea monkey is going to hold it over your head like the vindictive bitch all women truly are inside
2. Swiss? Your people are going extinct, retard. Don't racemix.

>>34391746
>hold it over your head
Most likely, yes.
>Your people are going extinct
I'm also racemixed. The Swiss have treated me like shit for it. They can go extinct for all I care. But I don't like that the new goy masses are going to be mostly Balkans. I wanted them to be Chinese or Latinos like in the US or something. Or AT LEAST Italians and Spaniards. But nooo, our Swiss elite prefer money and threw us all under the bus instead, so here we are.

>>34391454
you just want to bang her, a gook is never your looksmatch

>>34391975
You're right, I do want to bang her
By looksmatch I mean the same SMV level as me, I guess

>>34391454
>even if it means marrying my looksmatch
She is not your looksmatch bro. That's why she wants you stupid. Women 101

OP, first things first: go nut. Get some post nut clarity, and hope you realize she is using you.
Stay where you are, finish your education, stay at your comfy office job, focus on drawing.
Never leave your home and career for a chance at pussy cause even you realize it's a trap.
You already know, so stop trying to justify an obvious trap

>>34393706
I see
How do I know if someone is my looksmatch? If she doesn't want me?
>>34393716
Fineeee. God. I just wanted to neet with a pretty girl

>>34393978
I'm no PSL rating expert, but let me tell you whatever race you are right now white, mystery meat mutt whatever it's probably better than SEA genetics. Asian women are overrated as fuck. There is a simple reason this "Oxford study" or white men mixing with asian women has occured. Mid white guys would go for mid white girls, but the mid white girls are overwhelmingly choosing chad. So mid white guys are left with mid ethnic chicks, and they go particularly go for asian chicks because they are easier, they're easier because the mid asian chicks are shameless race traitors who overwhelmingly prefer white. What these white guys with yellow fever seem to not realize or care about is the fact that they're going to descend if they mix, conversely the asian chicks ascend racially by reproducing that way. These are the implications of letting the world become increasingly non-monogamous. My point is if you have yellow fever you are probably a loser and your son/s will probably resent you for doing that shit.

>>34394306
Okay, I guess you're right. I also hate my parents for being retards and racemixing
But if it's just to get laid, Asian chics are all game, right?

>>34394306
Wait, what does PSL mean again?
And does Italian or Spaniards count as white? I'm not really into the Germanic chics, they're so boring or I don't know, probably another stupid excuse stemming from trauma of getting abused.

>>34394369
>But if it's just to get laid, Asian chics are all game, right?
I think you could be doing more fulfilling things with your life. Also there's still a risk she gets pregnant and I don't know about you but I would feel very guilty about accidentally bringing someone into this world. You have to be very intentional about parenthood because sooner or later the kid will probably realize if you weren't. A child experiencing neglect or mistreatment from a parent is one of the deepest forms of betrayal there is.
>>34394372
>PSL
It's a acronym for the first few blackpill forums. PUAHate, Sluthate and Lookism. They were sort of interconnected. This is where the rating system originated from.
>And does Italian or Spaniards count as white?
It depends on who you ask. You could probably LARP as aryan and mostly get away with it you have lighter features. At the end of the day though I don't think being white is going to determine whether you are successful or not, but it can definitely help depending on the context.

>>34391454
>girl I love
>I've met twice over the span of 6 years

Oh, you poor deluded child.

>>34394402
>accidentally bringing someone into this world
Isn't that what chad does all the time though?
>the kid will probably realize if you weren't. A child experiencing neglect or mistreatment from a parent is one of the deepest forms of betrayal there is.
That's what happened to me. I believe that's one of the reasons I'm so fucked up

>>34394402
>I think you could be doing more fulfilling things with your life.
A man has his needs. And if the mid white chics don't want to give it up for me, then fuck you

>>34391454
>from Switzerland
You fuckers are so spoiled, That not having a bitch can cause you an existential crisis, Meanwhile I live in the shittiest country and can't even afford healthcare or fucking fix my face, I fucking hate you all whiners

>>34394514
Dude, I'm fucking broke too rn

>>34394514
Not having a bitch wasn't the issue. It was me potentially having missed a golden opportunity to neet and not having to work foe the rest of my life together with a sexy girl.

>>34391482
>asking ChatGPT for advice.
You cannot be helped. You are your own worst enemy.

>>34394904
Anon, it's a monkey you were chasing. Wake up.

>>34394940
Who else should I ask?

>>34395005
They're easy to fuck though plus the compelling neetdom

>>34395018
>Who else should I ask?
Someone who actually considers what you're telling them rather than a predictive text engine designed to maximize your gratification by serving you generic, marginally-probable, boilerplate responses.
I cannot stress this enough: the machine does not have relationship experience and will just trawl the internet for answers with meager similarities. At best it will give you a regurgitated reddit post or wikipedia entry.
Ask whoever remains in your social circle or better yet, sit down an figure out yourself. Seriously, create a pro and cons chart if you have to. Disregard the siren's call and consider whether or not this is a good deal from the perspective of an outside observer.

>>34391562
Sounds retarded and dumb but go risk it in case it's that 1 in 100 chance.

>>34394439
>Isn't that what chad does all the time though?
Not always, either way there's no good excuse for that in my book.
>That's what happened to me. I believe that's one of the reasons I'm so fucked up
I wonder if your father ever had this thought. Do you want to follow in his footsteps?
>>34394445
>A man has his needs. And if the mid white chics don't want to give it up for me, then fuck you
So your plan is to waste her biological prime? In other words you view her as a dead-end. Is that how you see yourself as well? You share the same fate as porn addicts and homosexuals. Unless...

>>34391454
Get real.
You don't have a girlfriend or a relationship. You have the 21st century version of what used to be called a Pen-Pal. Nothing more.

>>34395193
>generic, marginally-probable, boilerplate responses
>regurgitated reddit post or wikipedia entry.
Probably still better than my retarded self.
I don't have anyone in my social cirxle irl left, so I made a pros and cons list and no, it's not worth it. There were more cons. Thank you.

>>34395207
It may just be a 1 in 100 case. At least I didn't get any other such offers (yet). But I rationally deducted that there are more cons than pro

>>34395856
>I wonder if your father ever had this thought
Had which thought? Of not wanting to have children? Yes. Of thinking that that's why I'm so fucked up? Probably not.
>Do you want to follow in his footsteps?
No, if I'm going to have kids, I have to really want them. Right now it's not the case, I'm too ratarded and value freedom too much for it.
>So your plan is to waste her biological prime?
How am I wasting it? On the contrary, I'd be relishing in it. Could she have used this time to get pregnant and stuff? Yes, but women nowadays don't want children anyway, so whatever
I don't see myself as a dead-end. I don't see those girls as dead-ends either, just not with me, probably.
>You share the same fate as porn addicts and homosexuals.
What fate? Dying alone?
>Unless...
Unless what...?

>>34397303
True. Very true. TRUTH NUKE.
I did fuck her twice though

>>34397718
>What fate? Dying alone?
No progeny
>Unless what...
Unless you change your mind. You could probably figure it out.

>>34397836
I didn't say I was against having children

>>34391454
Stay in school. If it was a europeid girl i'd give you a different asnwer.

>>34397702
Good. I know passing up the scant possibility of a thai sugarmama couldn't have been easy but know you've made the wise choice.
Work on your friend issue next. Persistent loneliness will only increase your susceptibility to offers like the one you mentioned.

>>34397891
Alright. I'll stay.
>>34397956
Yeah, it was definitely not fucking easy. Especially since the sugarmama was hot.
>friend issue
I've already given up on friends. I'm too successful to have friends. I don't click with 99% of people. They all want to stay in their slog and talk about bullshit while hiding from success because they're afraid of looking bad. And I'm not yet successful enough for the top percent guys to be friends with.

>>34400472
> I'm too successful to have friends. I don't click with 99% of people
I think you may be overestimating the value of "success" in the eyes of your friends. I have friends of varying degrees of achievement and it has yet to be an issue. It simply does not come up as there is an abundance of items beyond the realm of wealth to connect over. Hobbies? Shared passions? Unless you're St.Barts rich it isn't too difficult to locate a common interest. It's possible that your friend group is uncommonly occupied with financial competence or you yourself are possibly projecting a personal obsession onto them. Something worth exploring there.

>They all want to stay in their slog and talk about bullshit
Elaborate. Define "slog" and "bullshit" in this context.

>>34391934
>I'm also racemixed.
>They can go extinct for all I care.
The nigger cries as he strikes you.

>>34391454
I also live in Switzerland and I see so many of them with Thais.. I personally find them disgusting and they are in most cases leeches. Find a chick from another place.

I wouldn't go to Thailand. It's not a good place to live in anymore. The whole population will try to scam you and you'll be marginalaised more than in Switzerland (where people are often cold enough).

Also they can be unfaithful. The whole family will make you pay, and if you can't she will leave you in seconds. I've seen this happen many times, and I heard of a guy who did that and the bitch left him with his daughter to remarry some other Swiss with whom she had a little shitfaced half Thai half Swiss.

Mind you not from Russia neither, I have a bad experience with that. They can be colder than ice due their ex communist upbringing.

I need to find myself someone caring and nice. However I hate to give money to women after my past experience so it'll be challenging.

>>34391454
Why would some Thai chick ask you to neet at her expense? Normally you as the westerner are supposed to bring your money to the table to support their family. Would she do that just to get some Swiss dick? Do you look like a model? I find that confusing. I think they're gonna steal your organs, dude.

>>34400603
You're right, I'm actually just fucking autistic who can't talk to people about tooics that don't move me ahead in life.
Also I'm just talking about acquaintances here.
>Elaborate. Define "slog" and "bullshit" in this context.
Like the latest game, the fucking news... I don't kniw, I just don't care, I'm so fucking retarded, holy shit. I have no friends, okay? Males don't want to hang out with me, for some reason. And I don't want to hang out with them. Can I explore this deeper? Sure... I've been to many meetups and they're all unbearable, except some girls. I don't know what kind of mental illness this is, desu.

>>34402351
What does that even mean?

>>34402909
>The whole family will make you pay, and if you can't she will leave you in seconds
Yes, and I just said I'm broke and she's the one willing to pay for everything. This is not the usual Swiss-Thai relationship lmao
On another note, how tf can you live in Switzerland? It's so fucking boring and sterile, though the boringeness can be useful

>>34403472
Yes, I look good, no they didn't try to steal my organs, you pussy. I've been with her in Thailand for 2 fucking weeks. She just genuinely likes me. Again, this is not the usual Thai scam. Except for her plastic surgeries that ascended her a bit.

>>34402909
I just really fucking hate Switzerland, you know? The people, the culture, the hypocrisy, the high prices, the racism, the immigrants, the hostility towards anything that isn't "safe"...
En huere Scheiss, alles.

>>34403649
There is nothing sterile in Switzerland.

And about the racism part, if liberals and feminists would stop screeming for an equality already far achieved then there wouldn't be any resentment towards other races and queers or other weird sexual fetishes.

Italians are quite well integrated, I don't see many complaining. The Spanish and Latinos I couldn't care less. I kind of dislike them because they are loud, same goes with black people.

Be careful on relying too much on a woman, that's all.

>>34403654
You have been in Thaïland two weeks.. Nice, that's a holiday...

>>34403670
You don't like Switzerland, nothing stops you to go away.

Mind you I don't like Switzerland too much either but for other reasons, the main one being there are two many old fucks that should already be dead by now. The younger ones are okayish but a lot have been pampered like little bitches. Strangely enough I liked Switzerland better when I wasn't Swiss yet.

I would leave if I could, but I have obligations that prevent me to do so.

>>34403670
You're just poor