>>34392165
Your mistake is trying to build yourself around what women want rather than what is best for you.
First of all, cut yourself off from E-Girls. Assume that any woman that trades intimacy for profit does not care for you.
Do not waste your time or money vying for the attention of a digital hostess.
Second, make healthy life choices. If you take care of yourself, both physically and mentally, the attention of these women will matter less to you. Plus, a healthy person is typically more attractive regardless so this will likely help you in that department later on anyways. In the very least, it will make you be more enjoyable to be around.

>cucked as hell
>vents anonymously instead of saying it out loud
ugh, get a grip my dude

>>34392165
You should only spend money on your mother/sisters or girlfriend/wife.
No other woman deserves your money.

>>34392165
Think outside the box.

Most people want the same things, so to get what you want you either:
> be better
> put in way more effort
> have an unfair advantage
> or stop chasing exactly what everyone else is chasing

Instead of asking “how do I make my personality more attractive to women?”, ask what you actually want.

Sex? Company? Kids? Someone to, give affection, make you feel wanted?
Then ask: what’s the lowest hanging fruit that still gives me 90% of what I actually want?
If a girl is a bit uglier, fatter, poorer, older, awkward, from a rougher background, whatever — does it actually stop you from getting the feeling or experience you want?
You can still take her out, talk, laugh, cuddle, have sex, feel masculine, buy her gifts, get attention, get affection, build a life.

So pick targets other men overlook, but only in ways that don’t ruin the actual experience you want. Single moms, dropouts, shy girls, lonely girls, girls with “flaws” other men reject.

Last part practice. Date girls you would not even fuck so you know how to go on a date and how to have sex. Its like every thing in life going on a good date is a skill.

Learn to pick a place, find parking, calling a weiter in a polite way, learn to deal with there indecision when chosing a meal learn to flirt and keep conversation about stuff that its not games or movies. JUST LEARN

Your personality is not meant to seduce every girl. Just find girls who already naturally respond to you and cast a wider net.

As for personality: women care about looks first. Personality matters after attraction, not before it. A lot of guys get this backwards.

If you want better odds:
> shower
> brush your teeth
> get a haircut
> shave/trim
> dress well
> stay in shape
> get a car
> meet more women

tldr: Personality helps keep a relationship, not start one. Lower your standards, improve your looks/status/logistics, and increase your volume of woman meet.

I used to hang out with this chick who was pretty horroble to me, even if she didn't intend to be through her eyes she was badly affecting my mind. So one day I go up there with a bottle of vodka and try to fuck her sort of in the lamest way possible. She went to her room, I woke up the next morning and left, she never called me again, which is what I wanted. I was free. I look back at it now and I wonder why I was too pathetic to cut her out, but the fact is I was pathetic, that's what these kind of relationships do to you. So my advice is to quit spending money on E girls, hit the gym or learn an instrument or become well read or something and find yourself a chick who actually likes you and is healthy to be with. First step is a little faith. Good luck to you.

>>34392165
>and likes other people better than me who I doubt spend as much on her
She doesn't like anyone that watches her or donates, dumbass. It's a job.

>>34392165
>I just realized she doesn't give a fuck about me
Bro, most women do not give a fuck about you.

Grow a pair and go balls forward.