Im in a long term relationship and its great but the other day i was approached by a women and basically had a chance to cheat. I couldn't get myself to turn her down right away and I even talked to her for a few minutes. Nothing happened but regardless im feeling like a real piece of shit. I dont wanna be this kind of person and im honestly afraid i might crack someday. What can I do to fight off my lust and stay committed other than locking myself in the house and playing vidya.
>>34393147Be a loyal person, which you aren't. Sadly your gf is in for a wild, extremely depressing ride.
>>34393147humble brag thread from an incel who had sex for the first time in his life
>>34393147Set your priorities. Sit and think about them. FWIW I was in a long distance relationship and had a naked drunk girl try to fuck me while I also was naked and drunk and I kissed and then pushed her off. You only crack if you let yourself crack.
>>34393147well just remember how bad you feel from just a minor interaction, a mere temptation. Imagine how badly youll feel if you act on it. BTW, this is normal, you didnt do anything, just be more vigilant, and remember how great your girl is.
>>34393147Girls in relationships do this all the time. String along guys for validation before ultimately not acting on it. They are pros at it, dont feel bad about it, even frame it to their man as a good thing because it keeps their relationship alive and fresh.
>>34393161>Be a loyal person, which you aren'tExcept OP showed loyalty by not acting on it. That's what loyalty is by definition, having temptation or chances to betray, but choosing against it. Losers who have no girlfriend, or who are loyal to anything that gives them attention, they don't know anything about loyalty.
>>34393147>I dont wanna be this kind of personThen don't be.
>>34393147I am in a long term relationship and have cheated.First learn to understand yourself and forgive yourself. Then seek as much help as you need. If you believe in therapy, psychology or a psychiatric or whatever, go. If you're religious, appoint a coffee with your priest or pastor. This is an awful situation to be but honestly it boils down to self growth and effort.Try your best to avoid moments of risk or exposure. You get wild with alcohol? You might need to completely stop drinking, bro. Or at least stop going out to bars. Ask your friends to hold you accountable. And so on.
>>34398351Good advice i might need to lay off the bottle and just not go alone to public spaces until I get myself figured out.
