I don't even know if this is me venting or asking for helpI'm Portuguese and I'm reaching 30yo and i always wanted to be a dad. The problem is that I'm a virgin with no experience whatsoever. I had very bad luck with 2 girls playing with my emotions in the last 4 years and the most recent one was in the last 3 months. I don't like to go to parties and i have no friends. I installed tinder and boo because i don't want to be alone but what these apps are telling me is that I'm not the best catch. Not a single like on boo and the 7 likes i have on tinder are from males and possibly girls but they have no pictures.3 real girls liked me, but as soon as i sent them a message, they unmatched.I work a lot and have time for nothing else.. I'm somewhat funny, i dress nice, i use perfume, I'm always smiling, I'm never mad at anyone and i don't hate anyone besides gypsies.With the lack of intimacy and not being able to find anyone, I'm afraid that when and if the time comes, that person will leave me because I'm 30 with no experience...
Anon... is this your first time on this board. You already know the answer.
>>34395181sorry anonyou can do it thoughi wish i had better advice but please don't give up
>>34395181I'm 38 and still a virgin despite having had 2 offers.I use to have girlfriends in my teens when I was in shape and had money.Anyway they will be able to tell 100%.My first gf knew I never kissed a girl immediately it took me 3 days and probably hours of making out to find something we both likes.So if that takes so much time I can only imagine the sex part.Most I ever got is one finger in soft as fuck took me a while to find the button and she came in less then a minute.I didn't like the smell.
>>34395181You sound like an emotional softie. Find an emotional softie girl, she won't care and she will find the fact that you have no experience cute. In fact she will be happy that your first time is with her. Emotional softies aren't on tinder, because they don't want hookups, they want "connection". Idk where they are lmao I hate that type. They're probably in art/religious groups/architecture/poetry circles. Something about personal values and feelings. Go to those events, join those circles.
>>34395378All that assuming you got your shit together otherwise and are minimally fuckable/not creepy.
>>34395181So yeah good news is your age/lack of experience is no problem for the type of woman you should gun for anyway.
>>34395378That is true.I'm an emotional guy.That is also why I joined "boo" It's supposed to be dating for "nerds" and all the introvert/extrovert types. The 1st girl said she liked me and was always hugging me at my job. Then i tried to schedule something outside and she couldn't. 3 days later she asks if I can help her family move and my friend at the job said he needed to speak to me. Apparently they had been going out and started dating. I cried and got hurt. The most recent was a girl that I haven't seen in 14 years. I wished her happy new year, we talked a lot, she started hinting on me asking her out. I asked her out, went on a date and since I like to express myself, 2 weeks later I told her that I wanted to do something again and that I was catching feelings. She got scared and there's basically no interaction nowadays.
>>34396116Girl 1 did nothing wrong. She did not lead you on, girls can like men in non sexual non romantic way.Girl 2, well you said yourself you scared her off. The problem is not sexual inexperience, it's relationship inexperience. Maybe read books about it or idk. Not manosphere misoginy, maybe female authors pop sci about relationships, don't treat as gospel, analyze how they see world/relationships.Express your sensitive nature about neutral topics or something. Idk man.
