I went on a first date, and I thought it went really well, but she doesn't want a second date. Make me feel better.
>>34396482this happened to me a few months ago. but I realized that I didnt actually like her I just wanted to fuck and wouldve hated having to talk to her. just go on another date
>>34396560>just go on another dateI'm lucky if I get one date per year. Statistically, I probably won't get another one for a VERY long time.
>>34396482A dirst date should not be thought of as the start of a longterm relationship, but as a one-off, with the possibility but not assurance of more. So you had a pleasant few hours with someone - that's a success in itself
>>34396482Rejections are an essential part of the process of finding the right person. I'm happily married now. Before I met the woman who is now my wife, I rejected a few women, and was rejected by quite a lot more. I broke up with a few women, and was broken up with by a few more. If any one of those rejections or break-ups hadn't happened, I would now be UNHAPPILY married to the wrong person. To find the right person and be happy with them, you have to filter out a whole bunch of people you wouldn't be happy with; rejections and break-ups are how you do that. It's a vital part of the process.
>>34396566Make an effort to actively change that then
>>34397308I didn't mean to leave that name in, that was meant for a tranny
>>34396482Alright, what did you do anon ? Tell us how your date went.
>>34397712she hugged me at the beginning and at the end. we just chilled for a while and i felt like we were getting along great, but i texted her the next morning and she said we weren't compatible. i don't know why.>>34397300>It's a vital part of the process.This isn't necessarily true. You probably wouldn't be saying this if you had met your current wife BEFORE any of the other women. Maybe if, by being rejected, you learn something about yourself and what type of person you're looking for, then the rejections would be valuable. But otherwise, they're just wasted time. In the end, getting rejected doesn't mean you're one step closer to finding the right person. If you're incredibly lucky, you could theoretically find the right person on your first try.>>34397285>So you had a pleasant few hours with someone - that's a success in itselfIf I'm never going to see her again, I'd rather have just saved us both the time and stayed at home playing vidya or something.
