Hello, I'm sending this because I need advice and I don't know what else to do. I'm shaking and i thinks i cant handle this i even try to kill my self already Someone is threatening to publish explicit videos of me; this person has my name and phone number i dont know what to do...I'm terrified and I just want to die right now if my family find this they would kill me
It'll be fine. Better people have come back from worse. Killing yourself is probably your blackmailers end goal
>>34397035Call their bluff. They gain absolutely nothing from outing you, while they CAN gain something (money? power?) by threatening you. So if you just refuse to play along, they'll just decide not to waste any more time on you and move on to another potential victim.
>>34397035Leak your cock before the extorter to mog them. Tell them you'll do it before leaking it sometimes calling their bluff works sometimes you just have to post your cock and have a slightly awkward convo. This happens a lot in the army to greenhorns that get duped, scammed and fucked.
>>34397035If they're simple sex videos (I.E. you're not doing anything illegal), what they're engaging in is blackmail and it becomes a police matter to deal with.If, on the other hand, what they have is evidence of you committing a crime, it becomes a lawyer matter to deal with.For the record, complying with their demands is no guarantee they will not release the materials, and often times blackmailers will either:1) Keep extorting you to breaking point, or2) Will release the material anywayOnly you know what is on those damning files. Oh, and just because someone has your name and phone number doesn't mean they have a copy of any explicit materials, but it does mean that they are engaging in stalking and harassment which is yet another police matter to deal with.
They're just videos of me masturbating, including anal. I'm really bored, I can't even sleep. I sent him the videos, he was supposed to pay me for them. I was only selling videos because I need to pay for my cats' surgeries and medicine.
>>34397390Op is gay lol
>>34397390Block them and make sure they can't contact you anymore, deny them a response since any response you make will just give them a invitation to exploit and threaten you more. Do NOT pay them, this proves that you're an easy target and safe to continue extorting in the future. Remember that even if they do get published no one is going to give a fuck since there are millions of people with their nudes and porn of them on the internet today. Change your phone number if necessary, be careful of identifying info if doing this sort of exchange in the future. Try other routes of earning money for your cat if possible like doing gigs, donation page or asking family members for help or loans.
>>34397035Put them on a pay site and then copyright strike him if he posts them for free.
show us the dm not just his user tag lmao
I'm a girl... but what if I block him and he sends the videos to my family? That's what scares me the most, not my videos being on the internet, that already happened to me before when I was 13.
>>34398023So? If your family ruins their daughter's life that's on them.
>>34398023How would he contact your family?
>>34397035>if my family find this they would kill meWhy? Genuine question: why? What are they going to find out about you that they didn't already know? They're going to discover that you masturbate. You're a young man. Essentially all young men masturbate. They already know you do it! They don't necessarily want to watch, but they're not going to discover anything about you that they didn't already know. So what does it matter if they see the video? Sure, it's embarrassing, but why would they be angry? You may as well talk to the police. There may not be much they can do, but this person is committing a crime, and they might be able to help. But the main thing is, don't pay. If you do pay, they will simply come back and ask for more money two weeks later, and keep on asking for more and more until they bleed you dry.There's a fairly good chance that if you just block them and ignore them. They might release the video; but paying won't stop them from releasing it after you run out of money. So don't pay, block them, and talk to the police.
>>34398023Ever tried not being a whore?
>>34397035Who cares?
>>34398048Oh, apparently you're a girl. I don't think that actually changes anything, though. Girls masturbate too!
>>34398023>That's what scares me the mostAgain, why? Why is that so frightening?
What he's threatening me with is a crime in my country, but I don't even know where he's from... My stomach is in knots and I want to throw up. He's not asking me to pay money or anything like that; he's actually asking for more videos. I checked his comments on Reddit, and I think he's bought content from other girls too.
>>34398059Because the first time it happened (when I was 13), my father beat me horribly, leaving bruises all over my body. To this day, it's something that affects me deeply, and I've never been able to talk to him about it. He thinks I did it because I'm a slut, even though he used to come to my school to threaten me.
>>34398090Maybe you should report your father to the police too.
>>34398075>He's not asking me to pay money or anything like that; he's actually asking for more videos.That doesn't really change the situation: if you "pay" he'll just keep demanding more.Go to the police, see what they say.
>>34397035op just ignore the fucker if you he drains your money and if you wont pay hell just release it but most likely doesnt even know your family. You reject him and he loses interest and goes to another victim.The best decision is to ignore him and deal with the fallout if he unlikely actually knows your family number or social media.
He's asking me for more videos I don't know what to do i'm terrified!!I know 4chan has a reputation for being a nest of horrible people but I've heard there are good people there too and I really believe there are
>>34398209So he is some horny Indian dude, block and report him
I blocked him and told him I would report him. This is his Snapchat. Please give him a good scare for me.https://www.snapchat.com/add/liamh20236227?share_id=kZZtfCCjJ6A&locale=es-US
I think I'm going to commit suicide if I do everything will stop
This is his reddit acountIm scare but i think he should do more https://www.reddit.com/u/Curious-Demand-2468/s/t6hSvuSurL
>>34398336So did you meet this dashing gentleman on r/youngslutsforoldpervs, r/Degradethis_Cunt or r/BreedMeDaddy?Did his prose on r/ftmspunished catch your fancy?r/traumatizedsluts2, perhaps?
>>34397035First, Delete Facebook. Can’t post to relatives if there is no page with relatives to contact. If they send videos directly to your relatives, it will be unmistakable to both your grandparents and law enforcement that you never intended to share this.After this, collect all the information you have on the person and cut contact. If you’re a woman, submit a legal report with the information you have.
>>34398291please talk to a suicide hotline or some counseler.
>>34398273good. best decision you can make>>34398291dont be so quick on the trigger. he doesnt have your information they rarely actually do and only want to scare you into giving money. You'll be outta these woods quickly.
>>34398023Your mistake was ever putting videos like that out there. Never record anything you can't bear to be seen. Never send someone the means to gain leverage over you, especially if you have no reason to trust them. I can understand that desperation encourages one to overlook risks but the misfortune of your circumstances won't eliminate the danger. Easy money is too often the lure others use to trap you.>my videos being on the internet, that already happened to me before when I was 13.Geezus. Honestly, no judgement, do you believe these videos are safe from abuse? In a place prying eyes can never see them? All those can land in your familiy's lap as well.>He's not asking me to pay money or anything like that; he's actually asking for more videos.He won't stop. If he can pry one video out of you he'll know he can get another. With each successive video he'll have more nudes to hang over your head. After he's done he may still decide to post what he's wrung out of you. He's already established he cannot be trusted.
>>34398090> I was only selling videos because I need to pay for my cats' surgeries and medicine.>Because the first time it happened (when I was 13), my father beat me horriblyHow real of a threat is this now? Paying for a cat's surgery strikes me as odd if you were living under your parent's roof presently. Do you have your own place now? Are you finacially dependent on them in any respect? Is it feasible to maintain separation from them?
Are your cats okay tho? how do they feel knowing their owner is a whore who sells videos of herself masturbating to feed them? Poor cats...
>>34397035Honestly, your only recourse is to tell your father and beg for forgiveness. Im sorry, it seems to be your only option.
Well, let's hope this is a bluff because it probably is. And stop sending videos like that to strangers.
The first time it happened, my dad found out and beat me until I was covered in bruises. I do have a job, but the surgery one of my cats needs costs $250, and I only earn $10 a day at my job.
>>34398692I lost my job 3 weeks ago, and I live with my parents.
Are there any other jobs available that you can do? Selling those videos is not a good idea
Don't send any more pictures and block and report him. The chance that something will happen is probably low but if you send more or pay the chance will be high.
>>34398846$250 isn't very bad. Can you ask your parents for a loan while you look for a new job by any chance? Sorry to hear about your dad btw hopefully he isn't that person anymore but if he does call the cops on him.
>>34398868I have another job, as I mentioned before but it doesn't pay enough to cover my cat's surgery He needs an operation on his paw otherwise he could lose it or worse die I owe my life to that cat He saved me from suicide twice years ago
>>34398906My father is worse off than me in terms of debts he's been a drug addict and alcoholic for as long as I can remember so I don't think he has the money
How urgent is the surgery? How much time do you have?
And do you have any other relatives or friends who could borrow you money? 250 isn't that much.
>>34398920Assuming your mother also can't help, Aare there any pet foundations around you that could assist or a loan from the bank you could take out?
>>34398922I spoke with cat and dog rescue organizations but they all say I have to put him to sleep The vet who examined him said he has a high chance of survival and even gave me a discount on the surgery which really costs $500 I don't really have any friends and my family isn't very close to me so they would completely reject me
Where are you from anyways? Maybe there is some kind of institution that can help you or a hotline
Depending on how much time you have, have you tried raising money on a gofundme?
I explained the situation to the vet and she let me make the payments every week he's having surgery tonight. As for the rest I don't know what to do or not to do I'm scared very scared I'll see if I can buy another phone just like it on an installment plan and change my phone number as soon as possible
>>34399371if you make $10 a day, just let the cat die. Get a new free cat on your 2nd or 3rd world street?Curious how you didn't learn your lesson after being beaten as a child for doing naughty shit.If you will literally be killed by your father, move to a friend's place, or go to the police.
