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I'm happily an happily married anon that can't stop gooning to hentai and hentai games. Before I met my wife I used to goon to degenerate porn (Facial abuse etc) and hardcore doujins. I love my wife, she's objectively attractive, I think she's attractive and she's quite down to get freaky, as far as reasonable stuff goes, i.e. she'll suck me off, she does anal occasionally, she'll dress up/cosplay or wear a collar. Problem is, I've conditioned myself over decades to be aroused by freakier and freakier shit, I love playing LonaRPG and jerking to Lona getting raped and anally fisted by Cthulu fishpeople or playing degrees of lewdity and whoring myself out to a nest of tentacles. How do I reset my sexual baseline to not need freaky stimulation all the time and just enjoy getting a regular BJ from my wife?
>inb4 hurfdurf we're all lonely losers here
ok, thx anon, can I pls get some input from other anons who've been in relationships after years of cranking it to disgusting hentai and porn?
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>>34397666
Idk bud that sounds really far gone and rough. Maybe reset your dopamine or some fufu magic like that, but it's still no guarantee. All I can say is the best porn, hentai, etc in the world is still not as good as pussy. You should take care of your wife before another man does.
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My experience as a porn user and sex haver has taught me you either need to cut the porn out, or develop a way to push through to the other side and use your dark powers for good. Which while I can see the finish line, is still very far away for me. How you would personally go about that, I really don't know, sorry.
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>>34397684
I've taken long breaks from porn/hentai before, like 3-4 weeks and my drive and sex with the wife has improved, but I always end up seeing something in anime (We sometimes watch stuff together) or videogames (i've cranked it to Ashley Graham for the last couple of days) that makes me look up shit on pixiv or rule34. Thinking of just blocking those sites, but I've done that before too and ended up just removing the filter.
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>>34397729
Just keep the streak going of abstaining. It sounds more like force of habit, something you're used to doing, rather than a strong compulsion to seek it out and do it.



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