>Went for a drink with my housemate after we presented our research papers.>I was in love with her for years but never got a "clear sign" so I ended up dating someone else. I didn't want to live with the awkwardness of being turned down. It ended lately.>There has always been a bit of tension between us, people comment on it.>I got her drinks.>She ended up asking me about some girl I met up with lately that became the basis of a rumour that i was dating her.>I said "No we're not but I can see how it could look that way, I was getting the vibe from her. It wasn't like the way we are together, noone would ever think we are dating">she stopped smiling and her head went down>a few minutes later she suddenly had to leave.>didn't think anything of it, more friends had arrived, and went home to my parents' house that eveningIt's been two days and she is ignoring my texts. Did I say something horrible and make a terrible mistake?
>>34397993w-what???who believes who's dating who?
>>34398034there's a rumour going around that i'm going out with another woman that i was seen drinking coffee with by local gossips.
>>34397993>It wasn't like the way we are together, noone would ever think we are datingWhos the "we"s referring to?
>>34397993>I ended up dating someone else>a rumour that i was dating her.are these separate women? because you said you were dating someone else but then say it's just a rumor?
>>34397993OP is gay. Are you dating someone right now or no?
>>34398414Hello sorry i have been a little bit busy and have been away from the laptop, sorry if I have been a bit unclear, my head was fried from study.I was seen meeting up with a woman which then became the subject of a rumour. That is the first we. The second we is regarding the relationship with my housemate who got offended at the idea of us not looking like a couple and left and is now ghosing me.
>>34398596Sorry if i was unclear, I wrote in a rush and tired from study. I recently came out of a relationship. Went on two dates with another woman, don't see it going anywhere. My housemate, who i have always got undertones from, is the third woman mentioned here
>>34398598Recently out of a breakup, went on two dates but i dont see it going anywhere, so I am single.
>>34398682Why didn't you go for the other girl
>>34397993>>34398676just write a new OP honestlycongrats on the research paper, and if you feel like you were misunderstood by this woman ,you can always reach out to her againit might be awkward but it's better than letting yourself be misunderstood forever
>>34399772I got really drunk about two weeks ago and sent her a text message. It wasn't even particularly bad but I don't think she likes me so much anymore
>>34399837I'll see her after Easter anyway so maybe she'll have got over it. If not then I'll say something
>>34399862honestly the earlier you clear things up the betterbest to be direct & go to her in person if you canit might feel comfortable to put it off, but it's probably a bad ideaup to you though, use your judgmentit's hard for anybody here to know the whole situation even if you described it in detail
it shouldn't be a big deal though, it'll probably be rather anticlimacticu should both be relieved by it
>>34399864There are years of context here missing desu. I mostly wrote this as a means of clearing my head.
>>34399941I didnt write desu i wrote t b h why did it correct me
>>34399866I hope so. I really thought she was a very avoidant person and only seemed to want me when i don't want her. Might have got that wrong if that interaction the other day is anytbing to go by.
