is it pointless?i don't think we understand each otheri don't know what she thinksshe just seems driven by feelings and not rational and doesn't pick up on the details in the things i say and i'm the oppositebut i haven't had a chance like that, i want to hold on to it because it seems better than nothing
i should add this is online
>>34400320get a life incel
>>34400320All the odds are stacked against you online. Online is not real Do not do onlineGo irl, dating apps, but not online. Be a good boy, be good to yourself. You deserve someone who lives in the area.
you are thinking about women wrongly bro. You are supposed to have things in common with your male friends. You are supposed to share hobbies and interests with your male friends. You are supposed to have male friends who persist being friends with you regardless of your relationship status. This makes you much more powerful when dealing with women and ultimately makes for better relationships. Its downright unfair to expect to find a woman who you find attractive and trust worthy and who also likes you AND you must have common interests and shit? You have put a retarded constraint on yourself. Pro tip women are not interested in the shit you are interested in. They will think its boring. They will get into things you are interested in because they love you and want to experience things with you but they don't actually give a fuck. Women have no fucking hobbies or interests, I think nature will not allow them to get engrossed in anything because they are supposed to stay mentally present all the time for child rearing. Your girl your should be your girl and your friends should be your friends. When you stop expecting your girl to moonlight as a gamer bro or whatever you can come to appreciate the things about her that are actually cute and nice and real.
>>34400342i suspected this and it's one of the reasons i've kept going, but the issue remains about saying things to her that she doesn't seem to pick up on, like we're speaking a totally different language or something.
As men we all build these mental models of the world and we are constantly testing and updating the models and adding new rules-of-thumb or taking note of new underlying rules that govern this complex system we reside in. Women just are not interested in any of this. You will learn over time to stop trying to make them think like you and instead appreciate the way that they do think. They have a good intuition about psychology often times, or they can understand a persons motivations for why they act a certain way automatically when it would take me 9000 gigawats of focused brain power to deductively come to the same conclusions. You will come to find that men and women largely can compliment eachother with our different ways of thinking. Thinking differently is only a problem when the woman is argumentative or does not accept that you are the leader and she is more of an advisor with some veto powers.
>>34400319What a loser mentality
>>34400353which part?
>>34400355I just mean the pic in OP
Ah man I love this puppy, its so cute and it loves me and I love to play with my puppy and I take care of it and it warms my heart when it snuggles up with me. but jeeze me and this puppy don't have the same taste in music or movies so idk. might have to get rid of it
>>34400319>she just seems driven by feelings and not rationalYes, feminism is lies. Evolutionarily speaking, if women were supposed to be men, they would be a lot stronger. The mentality follows, wherein they're built to go along with literally anything, because they have to. Rationality leads to decisiveness, and decisions don't do you any good if you aren't in charge. Pretending the sexes are the same causes a lot of problems in this modern hell.
>>34400319>it seems better than nothingTrust me, it's not. Find a woman you actually like.
