Is pussy and blow jobs worth it bros? Is the social status boost that comes with being a sex haver worth it?
>>34400610Over rated, but enjoyable. >social status boostbruh. Go bag a torta and see if that gives a boost to most normalfags
>social status boost of being a sex haverbro I hope you are a high school fag or something lol nobody thinks this. But yes fucking women is good. Its not worth signing your life away and becoming a servant/slave to a bitch. But it is worth taking care of yourself and being presentable and risking rejection.
>>34400661No I am 25 and never had a gf or consensual sex without outright paying for it.
>>34400679Well what is your problem then? I understand socialising is VERY tough nowadays, especially without situations that force human interaction. I also take it you aren't interested in rave girls etc.> social status boost This indicates to me it's a you problem, only certain crowds tend to view it as a social status thing. Try joining a degen band or something if that's what you're looking for.
>>34400679try to erase this retarded shit from your head because its going to negatively affect your self esteem and its just not true. Absolute fucking nasty retarded losers have sex all the time. Sex will not make you cool or bad ass and the absence of it also doesn't make you low status or whatever
>>34400610>Is pussy and blow jobs worth it bros?Yes. >Is the social status boost that comes with being a sex haver worth it?Absolutely not.
>>34400679How about unconsentual sex?
>>34400610Just the sex is great on its own but an actual relationship with a good woman is something that can't be beat.While hitting it from the back is one of lifes great gifts, it's nothing compared to having that same pretty lady set you up with a hot meal, a shoulder rub and a kiss on the cheek after a long day. There's no status change in "becoming a sex haver", it just puts you at the baseline. There is some status found in loving/being loved though.
>>34400610I got a BJ at 29It was okay, felt good/different, but wasn't life changingDidn't even cum, which surprised meA couple days late she had a huge cold sore on her lip, and I had some painless lesions, so I was shitting bricks that I was going to get herpes or some other stdWent through a bunch of tests and weeks later got back results that said I tested negative for hsv and stds, and that the lesions were likely yeast/balanitis I did guilt her into paying for half of my medical bills, which was like $300, kekBut it absolutely wasn't worth it, shouldve just fapped it to porn
>>34400610No don't. Sti's and stds are at all time high and the antibiotics aren't a guarantee that itll help you recover
>>34400691>>34400798Which one do I listen to? Dubs decides
>>34400742You don't deserve to have sex. I deserve to have it
>>34400832What makes you more deserving of sex than me?
>>34400610>Is pussy and blow jobs worth it bros?Worth what?
>>34400871The dangers that come from the chick butting into other people's arguments or trying to be a social justice bitch. The dangers of other dudes wanting your bitch and being willing to enact violence on you for it.
>>34400898Ah you're *that* dude. It's already been pretty well established that you're catastrophizing at best and a coward at worst; there are a lot more reasons than your question holding you back from getting laid.
>>34400906Where do you get the confidence that you'd be willing to die for her bro? How do I get that?
>>34400914>Where do you get the confidence that you'd be willing to die for her bro?Love makes a rational man do irrational things. My wife is the best thing that ever happened to me, I know I wouldn't be able to live with myself if something happened to her and I could have stopped it. Unfortunately I know my way around a fight so I'm not worried about the outcome, but I'd rather die trying than not try even if the odds weren't good.On the flip side, she knows I treasure the peaceful life we built together and wouldn't start shit like that on purpose. I trust her to carry herself with dignity and know she's capable of standing up for herself. >How do I get that?Find the right girl.
>>34400610It depends what you want long term.I think it is worth getting married and having kids, even if you end up divorcing and losing custody.Like things go right things go wrongYou get the job you get fired from the jobThat's life
>>34400610For some. I used to date a woman who never really cared for it. She didn't mind giving head, but she didn't like it because she said that's time and stimulation wasted when it could be used for penetrative sex, she didn't like the idea of oral shortening the duration of it. Her opinions on receiving was kind of like whats the point? She said to felt better to have penetration.She could have been a lying whore, and sometimes she was. Just what I was told.
>>34400969She's cheating on you
>>34400610>social status boostif youre in your 20s people assume youve had sex like everyone else. nobody cares. its actually much more surprising if youre someone thats never had sex. people will either admire or look down on you depending on how attractive you are
>>34400610Its pretty good not gonna lie. But lets be real here, you have to act like a normie for it to happen, which is pretty dishonorable. I wish I never had a girlfriend
>>34400679>no consentual sexSorry that happened, maybe what you need is therapy. You have a very skewed and immature view of sex
>>34400610yes
>>34400610Worth whatGreat sex is worth it for me but I am physical and I want physical sex where it saturates my physical senses. Idgaf about emotional connection or social status. I just want to feel her nails raking my back. I also wrestle, box, lift, play with dogs, kids, whatever. Because it's physical sensations. If you're not into physical stimulation, it could be worth it mentally but idk about that stuff.
bros is being a 22 year old virgin a bad thing
>>34400898It sounds like you've read a lot on the internet about what having sex entails but you've never actually done it. I've slept with a lot of women and I have no clue what you're talking about.
>>34405189You're just lucky
>>34400610>status boost that comes with being a sex haverthe fuck you're on about?