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Serious question but what’s the actual point of going on as a non tall or handsome male? I can’t stand my tallfag friends just coasting through life. Going out with them is just them existing and having female attention. Meanwhile I can’t even jestermax my way into pussy. My only real hope is getting money for seeking arrangements but other than that the rope calls me closer everyday
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you play the hand you are delt faggot. Even if you were tall and handsome you would be crying because your parents werent millionares like chads parents. You can always find a reason to cry about what you don't have or you can just accept shit for what it is and figure out the best way to make use of what you do have.
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>>34400719
Kek i recently participated in sports practice. I heightmogged a couple people there. Just asked what's their name and they got intimidated and answered very silently. I still don't know what their name is.
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>>34400719
I'm 6'4" and 34 years old and I've never even held hands with a woman. It's not because they're tall. If it were I would be drowning in female attention. People who think their height is the problem are massively coping to prevent looking at themselves and figuring out why they're so unlikable. I know why I'm unlikable (shit personality and have nothing to talk to normies about).
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I was just in the city with a bunch of baddies. Height doesnt mean anything in real life attraction. Its the blackpill. The only thing that matters is being charismatic and presentable (hygiene, clothes, etc). I saw a 5'6 guy hanging off a 6' blonde woman and she was loving it. Height is literally a meaningless online thing for autistic men AND women
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>>34400719
You're just going to kill yourself and suffer because you're short? How stupid is that?
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You all all fine. It is in your heads. Learn to like yourself and interact with people.
The problem isn't what people think of you. The problem is what you think of you.
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>>34400719
This guy >>34402382 has a point, OP. Being tall and/or handsome isn't everything. Yeah being attractive helps to capture the attention at first, but personality and confidence are worth much more.

At the end of the day, I believe most women want a partner who can 1: make them happy and 2: provide safety for them and their offspring.

Those two objectives are a bit vague, but basically 1 translates to having a good personality, share hobbies, share interests, share morals, have good humor, etc., and 2 translates to having a stable source of income, being brave, standing up for her and her loved ones, that sort of thing.

So TL;DR, it's no use to complain about things that can't be easily changed. Best to try and improve what is withing your reach.
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>>34400719
Guys who boast height are insecure and have low self esteem so they rely in attempting to say a single thing about them is better. It's not, and in all actuality they are not attractive because they are empty husks crying to others to get to make them be seen in a way they are not.
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>>34400719
>I let the media convince me that pussy from hookups is the only thing that matters in this world
Retard
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>>34402454
>>34400732
If you can't manage to be charismatic because your brain is an autistic problem solver that sees a new problem once the previous is solved, and you're not tall, how do you play this hand?
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>>34402862
>I completely ignore third party assessment to get a check on reality, and pretend that validation isn't a basic form of bonding, that being part of a group isn't part of the essence of human survival and that being excluded of the largest all-encompassing group existing is a death sentence.
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>>34400719
The richest men in America - Gates, Musk, Zuckerberg, Bezos, etc - were all pencil-neck geeks and social failures
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>>34402857
Women are very sexual, have always been and modern technology amplifies this. First impression, caused by height and appearance is the most important filter, because a woman has no reason to give you the time of day if you fail her first impression. Secondly, charisma may be able to sway her emotionally. Repeated interactions increase trust, and finally there's the reasoning of convenience.

If you have none of that you will never have a single woman. It doesn't matter what other men are like, what matters is whether a woman has chosen them or not. It's best to be on the side of being tall to have even a chance to prove yourself.

I dunno how this shit isn't taught in school, or told to parents in parent-teacher meetings, or why parents don't realize this shit themselves. I don't know what's the point of leading someone to their biologic doom.
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>>34402899
They were also autistic (As in focused), unscrupulous, jewish (the largest goal-focused social structure), and had sponsors that decreased their anxiety for fear of failing.

If you have none of that you're nothing but human cattle.
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>>34402896
You can get a pair and be valued in a group without being a looksmax chad.
>nooo i want a 10/10
lmao retard
>nooo 4chan told me all women always cheat with chads and uhhh the cock carousel and uhhhh they wont bond to me because they are not virgins!!!! i want it like in my fantasy animes!
l m a o r e t a r d
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>>34402921
Tell me just one thing.

What do I get from toying with a woman I don't even want?

Just tell me that one thing.
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>>34402906
>First impression, caused by height and appearance is the most important filter
also lmao retard because the dudes I know who get most/best pussy are average looking chubby social butterfly alcoholics, one organizes concerts and social events, one is a bar owner (financially struggling), one is a freaking hairdresser. I'm a tall buff dude and often the hottest dude in the room and yes drunk woman do approach me but they approach those dudes at about the same rate. And half the time they just grope me to make their boyfriends jealous and make them work out. Literally.
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>>34402924
bonding and being part of a group
and if you do get a 10/10
you will get bored of her looks
and you will want another woman soon
not even a 10/10, just any, as long as she looks different

t.knower
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>>34402928
>organizes concerts
>bar owner
>hairdresser
First two in positions of power, all three in environments where women cycle quickly, looks are important and reinforce an irresponsible lifestyle.

How surprising you didn't mention someone in a CS job, Japanese, emergency doctor or any other shit that promises stability and requires effort that seems all women are fleeing from.
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>>34402938
I'm in a CS job lmao
You just wanted ppl to keep bumping this right



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