>tfw my mom proposed that I could move back in with her, on condition I abstain from alcohol, and get another job ASAP so I can pay her rent like beforeShould I just accept the offer desuI was considering proposing this to her anywaysI'm currently a depressed NEET wastrel with no money or prospects, who lives with my sister and her bf in his house rent-free, drinks all day and basically does nothing. I feel bad essentially mooching off them for almost 2 years now with nothing to really show for itMaybe living with my mom again would give me a kick up the ass desu and help get me out of this rutI'm ambivalent about dating, almost a wizard so accepted that's not in the cardsWhat would you do in my shoes?(Thanks in advance for any advice, I'll try check back soon when I get the chance)
>>34401432Sounds like a no-brainer on what you SHOULD do. The problem is that you already live for free somewhere and get to do whatever you want. You live with mommy, you'll do something that helps you like stop drinking and getting a job. The problem is that now you'll need to stop drinking and get a job, therefore less freedom. It really boils down to how much self control you have and if you're actually are ready, or even willing, to take better care of yourself.
>>34401439>You live with mommy, you'll do something that helps you like stop drinking and getting a job>Sounds like a no-brainer on what you SHOULD doYeah, I think I'm honna move back in with my mom desu, go back to working/saving money and helping around the house. That way I'm not a burden on my sis and her bf any longer either. Thanks for the reply anon
>>34401462Good luck, anon.
>>34401466Thank you <3 godspeed
Bump in case anyone else wants to chime in...
>>34401432Yeah if you don't see a future there with him then move out and find someone you do see a future with
>>34402671Thanks dude, well both options are kind of dead end desu but I see more "future" living with my mom at least, will probably be able to save more and have a better time of it, and feel like less of a burden
>>34402676You won't feel like a burden with someone who genuinely loves you. Best case is he is lPatient, kind, waits when you need, and then is able to take you in every way you have ever dreamed of and more.
>>34402850Misclicked*Best case is he is Patient, kind, waits when you need, and then is able to take you in every way you have ever dreamed of and more.
>>34402850>>34402851I think you're misunderstanding lmao... he's not my bf... I'm a straight dude who lives with my sister and her bf
May as well bump for any other honest opinions/advice, but I'm leaning towards moving back in with my mom desu
