Is it bad if I don't want to spend any money on a girl? I'm gonna go out with her and my friend says I should "be a gentleman", I feel like if she loses interest because I don't buy her food then that's a red flag. I already know she's pretty into me.
>>34401911Oh damn is that richie? Did he actually become chubby boy?
>>34401916I’ve had some good burgers in my time.I love a good Swiss, melted Swiss cheese and mushrooms, roasted mushrooms, and caramelized onions on a burger.That is hot stuff.
>>34401911You should spend money on a girl if you like her and want to do something nice for her, but not by defaultMe personally I’m at a point in life where I can comfortably pay for dinner dates and I’m not going to limit helps seal the deal sometimes, but if you’re a young man and dealing with a girl who is infatuated with you then going dutch on a first date is fine. Going dutch on something special like a birthday or anniversary dinner is Jewish though, because stuff like that is supposed to be a gift.
>>34401911Modern dating etiquette allows for sharing expenses of dates, but it is just simpler to alternate paying than to split bills. The general rule is that whoever invites does the paying, with the hope that it will all average out over time
>>34401911Depends on the girl, some will be ok with splitting, some will not. I think the best way is to be upfront, otherwise you are doing a coin toss.
>>34401911I don't believe in spending big especially if she isnt your gf, heck until she is your wife.But if it's something small like coffee or icecreams, stop being a cheap cunt. You have to show some form of generosity. More so through actions and helping than anything, not necessarily monetary. But yeah I do agree that tif she expects big spending it is a red flag
>>34401916Listen to him. He has good takes.>>34401911Buy her something cheap like a burger
>>34403023Like voting for kamala?
>>34403124Yes, clearly the lesser evil. He's already been proven right.
>>34403127He's a literal feminazi contrarian that's also a fed. Should've got Kirk'd. Only nazis(feminist lapdogs) listen to that loser.
>>34401911Just have sex with her before you spend any money on her, then you're good.
>>34403290Nah, nazis hate him. I have listened to nazi podcasts. They're seething at him the same way you are right now.
